Girls and Boys!

[cindys_castle2011]

So

You think he is my friend?

define friend??
i really think he likes you to be honest.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

See my opinion is, if your friends think the guy is a jerk or they don't trust him, don't go out with him. If your friends just think he's weird, I think its a little different.

yeah, i wasnt saying dont date him if they just dont like him for no specific reason. i was saying if they really have a bad vibe about him or something.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

define friend??
i really think he likes you to be honest.

Like...like like!?


I dunno..

Friend :

Hang out
When saying goodbye give hug (NO not a ...intense hug. Ew. No. Like... "Alright ill see ya later grandma" type hug)
Uhm...
Talk on a regular basis..
Share life events

I dont know how you would define friend..but thats my definition.

 

[Rockstar mentality]

truthfully, (sorry bout the guys on here) i think alot of guys are just after one thing. and if they dont get it, they want to move on to someone more skankier that will. you seem like a really nice person and someone who def. doesnt deserve to be treated the way you was. i know its really hard, i hate it when ppl tell me this, but i would try & move on. it sucks to be cheated on.
ive never been cheated on but my best friend has and i stayed up night after night with her listening to her cry. so i have an idea on how bad it is. but if he wants to go off and do what he did, with that chick and then not even let you know about it, hes not worth it.

ok ok i will betray my own gender by saying this. GENERALy guys are looking for "onething" but when a guy finds someone special then that "onething" doesent matter and all that we want is a smile of he grls face.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Like...like like!?


I dunno..

Friend :

Hang out
When saying goodbye give hug (NO not a ...intense hug. Ew. No. Like... "Alright ill see ya later grandma" type hug)
Uhm...
Talk on a regular basis..
Share life events

I dont know how you would define friend..but thats my definition.

well yeah thats how i see friend.
hmm i guess like like (as a future boyfriend/girlfriend)
he would smile a lot when hes around you, he'll look you in the eyes when your talking to him, or vice versa. ect.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

ok ok i will betray my own gender by saying this. GENERALy guys are looking for "onething" but when a guy finds someone special then that "onething" doesent matter and all that we want is a smile of he grls face.

ahh dang that gave me chills. =)) its sad but its true. (the first part)

 

[Rockstar mentality]

both parts are true. But honestly the safest way to not get hurt if your a grl is go for the inexperienced boys. They dont know the manipulativee ways yet soo they are less likely to hurt you

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

well yeah thats how i see friend.
hmm i guess like like (as a future boyfriend/girlfriend)
he would smile a lot when hes around you, he'll look you in the eyes when your talking to him, or vice versa. ect.

Yeah.
He stares straight into them
BUT.
Isnt that normal?

I thought it was....until now i guess??

Yeah future boyfriend in like...3 years xD
IF he would ever consider me like that. Which i dont think he would. Maybe..I guess I dont know.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

both parts are true. But honestly the safest way to not get hurt if your a grl is go for the inexperienced boys. They dont know the manipulativee ways yet soo they are less likely to hurt you

well then come to my town and tell me if you find an inexperienced boy =X.
haha

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Yeah.
He stares straight into them
BUT.
Isnt that normal?

I thought it was....until now i guess??

Yeah future boyfriend in like...3 years xD
IF he would ever consider me like that. Which i dont think he would. Maybe..I guess I dont know.

ahh you seem just a tad confused. lol.
but not really if your talking to a boy and they are looking you directly in the eyes the entire time. it means they are listening and want to know what you have to say. but 3 years?? wow loonnng time. or you young or just saying that?

 

[Rockstar mentality]

well then come to my town and tell me if you find an inexperienced boy =X.
haha

same in my town but im pretty sure a couple have to exist..... somewhere

 

[ohdisco]

both parts are true. But honestly the safest way to not get hurt if your a grl is go for the inexperienced boys. They dont know the manipulativee ways yet soo they are less likely to hurt you

Not always so. It can be also how they're raised. I know people who are extremely manipulative in their first relationships because they're parents are manipulative.

I wouldn't talk in generalities about topics like sex. I don't feel that in general guys only want sex or to hook up, or whatever. I would say there is a large population of guys who only want that, but not in general.

 

[::Snow_White::]

Uhhh.
Single.
My whole life.
Go me!
=D

But seriously I haven't really met a guy I really like. Although I haven't met many guys, but all I see of most of the guys at school they are jerks and immature. I liked someone a couple months ago, but not anymore. He was very nice from what I knew of him, problem was just that though. I hadn't really ever talked to him. I didn't know much about him, just that he was real nice and smart.

I could really care less if I'm single my whole highschool life or not. I think I'd rather be actually.
I want to be able to focus on my schooling and my future fully instead of a guy...
Once schooling is over though, I'd be fine on finding someone if they came around.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

ahh you seem just a tad confused. lol.
but not really if your talking to a boy and they are looking you directly in the eyes the entire time. it means they are listening and want to know what you have to say. but 3 years?? wow loonnng time. or you young or just saying that?

Nah.
Im being totally serious xD
in 3 years I will be 15 *actually...really darn close to 16*


Yes.
I am VERY confused, my friends make up stuff to make me happy, when all I want is the truth.


Well.
He always pays attention when I talk.
No wonder he remembers the little stuff.




So yes.
Im very confused.

 

[ohdisco]

same in my town but im pretty sure a couple have to exist..... somewhere

I'm sure there are quite a few guys in both of your towns that are inexperienced. There are guys who are pretty secretive about it (out of embarrassment or they just don't feel it's anybody's business), and guys also lie. Biigg time.

 

[dancergirlsasha]

well yeah thats how i see friend.
hmm i guess like like (as a future boyfriend/girlfriend)
he would smile a lot when hes around you, he'll look you in the eyes when your talking to him, or vice versa. ect.

Does that really mean a guy likes you?! This is darn good news.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Not always so. It can be also how they're raised. I know people who are extremely manipulative in their first relationships because they're parents are manipulative.

I wouldn't talk in generalities about topics like sex. I don't feel that in general guys only want sex or to hook up, or whatever. I would say there is a large population of guys who only want that, but not in general.

mmhmm, but like this guy im talking to now. He was raised in a very nice home. I know his family/cousin/his friends. and Their all the kind of people i would love to be with. But he was done things with past girlfriends. But hes really not that kind of guy if you know what i mean.

 

[ohdisco]

Nah.
Im being totally serious xD
in 3 years I will be 15 *actually...really darn close to 16*


Yes.
I am VERY confused, my friends make up stuff to make me happy, when all I want is the truth.


Well.
He always pays attention when I talk.
No wonder he remembers the little stuff.




So yes.
Im very confused.

The best answer you will ever get: just ask him. Honestly, we can go back and forth telling you what we feel, but it might be completely off as to what he feels. I know it's really embarrassing and you'll think "easier said than done", but honestly if you get into the habit of not putting too much pressure on it, the anxiety of situations like this will get much better.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Nah.
Im being totally serious xD
in 3 years I will be 15 *actually...really darn close to 16*


Yes.
I am VERY confused, my friends make up stuff to make me happy, when all I want is the truth.


Well.
He always pays attention when I talk.
No wonder he remembers the little stuff.




So yes.
Im very confused.

well.. your not to to young. umm when friends make up things they usually just do it not to hurt you, and sometimes that better than knowing the truth and not getting hurt.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

The best answer you will ever get: just ask him. Honestly, we can go back and forth telling you what we feel, but it might be completely off as to what he feels. I know it's really embarrassing and you'll think "easier said than done", but honestly if you get into the habit of not putting too much pressure on it, the anxiety of situations like this will get much better.

couldnt have said it better myself.