I've been married almost 24 years, and I still have one gift from my wedding shower that I display on a day to day basis. my mom's friend took the invitation to our wedding and sent it to a company that made a beautiful candle with it. she provided the colors for our wedding which were incorporated into the candle. the idea was we were supposed to light it each year on our anniversary but the candle is so lovely I can't bring myself to melt it. I've often thought that when my kids marry I would like to do the same for them.