Thanks TJ. I just didn't want her to KNOW, so she wouldn't expend any energy into trying to talk me out of it. My friend lost her 1yr old daughter to a rare genetic disease in December and now it's looking like her 5yrold son might have a milder form of the same disorder. There is no cure. Such a long and stressful couple of years, which obviously won't be over for some time. I feel awful and helpless. I want to help her, but how? How can I ease those horrible memories of doctors, hospitals, funerals and possibly a future of more of the same? I can't, but I CAN provide a magical family memory. I've been to Disney many times and had been planning my first ever cruise! But, I think I'd be happier postponing the boat for a bit. I'm not rich, so I can't do both.
A stack of Disney dollars wouldn't be practical, but I could book a room-only since the cancellation dates are within a week of the trip. Does that sound like a reasonable plan?