I hope you don't mind me jumping in with a related question. I can't figure out how to have the notes, coupons and other gifts from the characters come for my daughter. If I just give them to her, she'll know I made them. I'm trying to preserve some mystery! How have others done this? I don't want to pull the grand welcome stuff out of my suitcase.
I kept all the invitations and coupons in a large manila envelop. I placed a little sticky note on top of each one so that I could easily recognize the appropriate envelop (in case I had forgotten which stamp). Then all I did was pull out the envelop and drop it by the door. I kept gift bags hidden in the closet, and little gifts, and would place them by the door at night. My DGD usually fell fast asleep after her bath. I was able to drop some envelops while she was playing in the room.
As far as welcome baskets, I had them all made up and placed in large opaque (white or black) trashbags. If flying I would use a small foldable gift bag and place the goodies in a bag, separate bags for each goodie basket, in the suitcase to keep them all together. Then I would send everyone out to explore while I settle in the room, and would meet them by the pool, gift shop, etc. When we returned to the room, they were so surprised! It only took a minute to set everything up. I had everything together in one box.
I was worried that I the room might not be ready and wanted everyone to have a welcome letter and coupons for DTD, so when checking in, I asked the conceige (sp) if he would give out the welcome letters containing coupons for DTD, which is where we were going first. He was great, and it was a big surprise.
And, if there was a single parent who did not feel comfortable with having the little ones on their own, you could easily do the goodie baskets at night when they fall asleep. I don't think kids care as much about the welcome basket on arrival as they do about the magical surprise to find the welcome basket. (hope this makes sense).
My DGD was so excited about all the 'things the faires left'! Good luck with your magic.
Karen