getting over your boyfriend/girlfriend

[Princess_Jordenne]

if you were going out with someone for a year, could you really get over them in about 2 days? i was going out with my boyfriend for a year and we just broke up last week nd he already has a new girlfriend, nd then he doesnt even understand why it hurts..

would you be able to get over someone in two days?

 

[SPAM]

i dont know if i would be able to get over someone so fast but i sure would try.he sounds like a big jerk and he doesnt deserve you. you are better off without him. celebrate being single, especially when it means not being tied down to a jerk like that.

 

[WDWHunk]

It's very possible. Especially if you're a very flirtacious person and have been flirting with girls throughout the time you were togther with someone else.

It's not very fair to say that he's a jerk just because he's already dating someone else. He could very well just not get hung up on the little lovey dovey aspects of a relationship. He probably also realizes that there's no such thing as "the one" and is open to dating dozens of girls before he finally finds the one he wants.

 

[ann-e-mator]

I broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months just a few weeks ago, and I still can't get over him... I think everyone heals differently. For some people it's hard to move on, and for other it isn't. But I don't blame you for being upset... I would be upset if I saw my ex with another girl a few days later. I hope you feel better.

 

[SPAM]

um yes, i would think that a jerk would be someone that broke it off with someone then started dating someone else within a few days. i personally would not want to date or be friends with someone who is selfish like that. he obviously didnt consider her feelings at all, especially near valentines day. thats just how i feel.

 

[PG Sweetie]

My ex boyfriend broke up with his girlfriend to go out with me and then he broke up with me to go back out with her and it hurt for a while and it still hurts to see them together. for a while after he broke with me we would still talk and hang out and he would put his arm around me walking and give me hugs but now we hardly ever talk and i still like him but just not as much so i guess what I'm trying to say is that i understand how you feel. and you have every right to be mad at him. even if he was a flirt when you guys were going out he's still a jerk.

 

[Princess_Jordenne]

all of you have good points..but i do know for sure that it hurts me wicked bad. we were like more than boyfriend/girlfriend we were best friends, nd now this girl is like not allowing him to talk to me nd stuff nd i dont get it..cant he see how controlling shes gonna be if shes this controlling after 4 days? idk..i just want him show his feelings..cause i know deep down that he really cares about me..i just dont get why hes not showing ANY emotion.

thanks for all the help guys! lol

 

[Roxter79]

I know how that goes. Same thing happened to me. He was probably flirting with this girl for a while so it was easy for him to move on. In time you'll move on. It just takes time and good friends

 

[soccercruiser87]

It's very possible. Especially if you're a very flirtacious person and have been flirting with girls throughout the time you were togther with someone else.

It's not very fair to say that he's a jerk just because he's already dating someone else. He could very well just not get hung up on the little lovey dovey aspects of a relationship. He probably also realizes that there's no such thing as "the one" and is open to dating dozens of girls before he finally finds the one he wants.

very well said, i have to agree

 

[Kyralyn]

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[cool1guy1me]

my girlfriend of 2 months broke up with me recently. i found out that she had been using me to get her ex jealous the whole time! most of her ex's just stay friends with her after she breaks up with them but not me. to me getting over her was easy by just completely getting her out of my life. that is not advice and no one should try it because you may not like the outcome. it still hurts to think about her because she was my first girlfriend but i had to have my first heartbreak to right. but oh well that is how i coped with her breaking up with me. hmmmm...that felt good to tell someone about that after kind of just keeping it in me for so long. well hope you feel better soon

 

[disneyfan05]

i haven't had many bf, but i have had to deal w/ alot of my friends breaking up w/ bf and gf. i would have to say that this new girl is probably just a rebound girl. i don't think you could get over someone that quick, it takes awhile.

 

[ann-e-mator]

I agree with cool1guy... that is a really hard way to get over someone. Sometimes though, especially in my circumstance, it was really the only way to get over the heartbreak. And it's hard because I want to remember all the great times we had together... Sometimes I just think about all the bad times we had, just so it makes me feel like my decision to break up with my ex was the right one. Even though I miss him I know there is someone out there who would treat me better than he did.

 

[BellHop]

NO NOT AT ALL

 

[cool1guy1me]

thanx ann-e-mator for agreeing with me. also i have the same problem with just remembering the bad things that happened. i try to remember the good but it is hard.

 

[Krystarella]

thanx ann-e-mator for agreeing with me. also i have the same problem with just remembering the bad things that happened. i try to remember the good but it is hard.

listen if that girl hurt u like that shes not worth any of your feelings. thats cruel and horrible. i would never do that and i dont understand how any girl can. can any other chicas back me up?

 

[Princess_Jordenne]

listen if that girl hurt u like that shes not worth any of your feelings. thats cruel and horrible. i would never do that and i dont understand how any girl can. can any other chicas back me up?

i totally back you up! i would never be able to hurt someones feelings that bad..



nd i just keep thinking about the good times we've had..one thing that worked was thinking about all the bad things about him..like whenever i would start thinking about how much i loved him i would just think of something bad about him.it worked for a little while..idk..im starting to get over it i guess..i cant help but thinking aboiut how i want it all back tho.i miss it..

 

[Princess_Jordenne]

listen if that girl hurt u like that shes not worth any of your feelings. thats cruel and horrible. i would never do that and i dont understand how any girl can. can any other chicas back me up?

i totally back you up! i would never be able to hurt someones feelings that bad..nd if shes gonna do that..then she doesnt deserve you anyways.



nd i just keep thinking about the good times we've had..one thing that worked was thinking about all the bad things about him..like whenever i would start thinking about how much i loved him i would just think of something bad about him.it worked for a little while..idk..im starting to get over it i guess..i cant help but thinking aboiut how i want it all back tho.i miss it..

 

[Krystarella]

i totally back you up! i would never be able to hurt someones feelings that bad..nd if shes gonna do that..then she doesnt deserve you anyways.



nd i just keep thinking about the good times we've had..one thing that worked was thinking about all the bad things about him..like whenever i would start thinking about how much i loved him i would just think of something bad about him.it worked for a little while..idk..im starting to get over it i guess..i cant help but thinking aboiut how i want it all back tho.i miss it..

you're going to miss it for a while. But i've found a few remedies to the broken hearted blues.
-hang out with friends! *girls, everyone knows what helps us....retail therapy! go to the mall and buy some killer clothes! you'll be feeling better in no time. Not to mention, having your friends to whine to is deffinatly a plus!*
-go to the movies *and no romantics! comedys only. that should get your mid off "him"
-work out- going to the gym and pretending that a punching bag is him, deffinatly helps heal the broken heart. Hey think of it this way, after everything, you'll be over him, and you will have a GREAT bod.

hope i helped in some way shape or form!

 

[Princess_Jordenne]

you're going to miss it for a while. But i've found a few remedies to the broken hearted blues.
-hang out with friends! *girls, everyone knows what helps us....retail therapy! go to the mall and buy some killer clothes! you'll be feeling better in no time. Not to mention, having your friends to whine to is deffinatly a plus!*
-go to the movies *and no romantics! comedys only. that should get your mid off "him"
-work out- going to the gym and pretending that a punching bag is him, deffinatly helps heal the broken heart. Hey think of it this way, after everything, you'll be over him, and you will have a GREAT bod.

hope i helped in some way shape or form!

lol yea you did. nd thats what ive been doing. ive been hanging out with my freinds nd stuff.lol still miss him..but idk i'll get over it soon enough i guess.lol you guys all rock tho haha jut knowing i have people to talk to..