Get some bubble wrap for that child!

LaraK

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OK, does anyone else think that we are just a tad over protective of our kids today? I was remember back to when I was a kid and things were "good for you" that we would never allow to happen to our children today.

One of my favorites is when you would fall and scrape a knee...some adult would say "just rub a little dirt into it"
 
On Tuesday I was at CVS getting perscription for my girls and dd 3 was holding on to the counter jumping up and down. I told her to stop but decide not to listen to me so a couple minutes later all you hear is a loud bump and then screaming. The first words out of mouth was I bet you are not going to do that again. Then I picked her up and hug and check for any blood:rotfl:
 
On Tuesday I was at CVS getting perscription for my girls and dd 3 was holding on to the counter jumping up and down. I told her to stop but decide not to listen to me so a couple minutes later all you hear is a loud bump and then screaming. The first words out of mouth was I bet you are not going to do that again. Then I picked her up and hug and check for any blood:rotfl:

:lmao: :lmao: :lmao: My DD once was screwing around and I warned her that she needed to pay attention...of course she didn't listen (she was 2) and walked right into the door jam....she looked at me with that "well...should I cry or not" look and I said to her "well, that was stupid, guess you wouln't do that again"...another mother was near me and gasped so loud they heard her three states away. She gave me a look like I was the worst human being in the world and actually pulled her child (who was in the same class with mine) closer to her like I was going to punch her kid next. :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: You know what, my kid didn't cry and she didn't walk into the door jam again (at least for a good long while). I guess I'm just a mean mommy.:laughing:
 

So many people... so few trampolines.



ETA: Actually, I knew a couple who got a roll of bubble wrap for their eldest.
 
OK, does anyone else think that we are just a tad over protective of our kids today? I was remember back to when I was a kid and things were "good for you" that we would never allow to happen to our children today.

One of my favorites is when you would fall and scrape a knee...some adult would say "just rub a little dirt into it"

Perhaps it's a regional thing :confused3
 
Well, a lot more of us didn't survive childhood back then so we must doing something right these days. I get frustrated with the "it was good enough for me" argument when people talk about childraising.

From www.childstats.gov

Between 1980 and 2002, the death rate declined by more than half for children ages 1–4. Among children ages 1–4, unintentional injuries (accidents) were the leading cause of death at 11 per 100,000, followed by birth defects, homicide, and cancer at 3 per 100,000 children each.
Motor vehicle traffic crashes are the most common type of fatal injury among children. Use of child restraint systems, including safety seats and booster seats, can greatly reduce the number and severity of injuries to child occupants of motor vehicles. In 2002 40 percent of child occupants ages 1-4 who died in crashes were unrestrained.

Between 1980 and 2002, the death rate for children ages 5–14 declined by approximately 45 percent, from 31 to 17 deaths per 100,000. Among children ages 5–14, unintentional injuries (accidents) were the leading cause of death at 7 per 100,000, followed by cancer (3 per 100,000), birth defects, and homicides (1 per 100,000 each).
The majority of unintentional injury deaths among children ages 5–14 result from motor vehicle traffic crashes. In 2002, 45 percent of children ages 5–9 and 54 percent of children ages 10–14 who died as occupants in motor vehicle crashes were not wearing a seatbelt or other restraint.

Sorry for the grim hijack. Back to rubbing dirt in the wounds.;)
 
it's not regional. we're mean to our kids out here on the left coast too. DD (then 4 or 5) insisted on smelling the cookies before I got them off of the cookie sheet. She started crying before she took her chin off of the pan. I looked at her and said, "how do they smell?" It shocked her so much she stopped crying. then we sat on the couch and I hugged her.
 
Well, a lot more of us didn't survive childhood back then so we must doing something right these days. I get frustrated with the "it was good enough for me" argument when people talk about childraising.

From www.childstats.gov

Between 1980 and 2002, the death rate declined by more than half for children ages 1–4. Among children ages 1–4, unintentional injuries (accidents) were the leading cause of death at 11 per 100,000, followed by birth defects, homicide, and cancer at 3 per 100,000 children each.
Motor vehicle traffic crashes are the most common type of fatal injury among children. Use of child restraint systems, including safety seats and booster seats, can greatly reduce the number and severity of injuries to child occupants of motor vehicles. In 2002 40 percent of child occupants ages 1-4 who died in crashes were unrestrained.

Between 1980 and 2002, the death rate for children ages 5–14 declined by approximately 45 percent, from 31 to 17 deaths per 100,000. Among children ages 5–14, unintentional injuries (accidents) were the leading cause of death at 7 per 100,000, followed by cancer (3 per 100,000), birth defects, and homicides (1 per 100,000 each).
The majority of unintentional injury deaths among children ages 5–14 result from motor vehicle traffic crashes. In 2002, 45 percent of children ages 5–9 and 54 percent of children ages 10–14 who died as occupants in motor vehicle crashes were not wearing a seatbelt or other restraint.

Sorry for the grim hijack. Back to rubbing dirt in the wounds.;)

That is refering to car accidents. It is common knowledge that cars and restraint systems have become better and safer in the last 27 years. I don't think that info is going to suprise anyone.

On the other hand- parents have become wayyyy too protective of their children. Getting ****oos is good for a child- it teaches so many things.


ETA- that says "boo-boos" I forgot the dash.
 
when my sister and I were kids, we were encouraged to "tough it out" -- whatever it was -- illness, injury, flesh eating bacteria ;) . Band-aids and OTC medicines were for sissies -- the only time you were supposed to put on a bandaid was if you had an open wound that was gushing blood and you needed something to put pressure on it to stop the bleeding :scared1: as you went about your daily activities.

LOL ...

On a more serious note, I don't think coddling a kid's injuries/illnesses makes someone a good parent (and nor does not coddling make someone a bad parent). learning how to tough it out might not be a terrible thing for kids to learn....

on our last trip, I remember seeing a little kid fall on the pavement at AK. The kid (probably about 3) lifts herself up and just looks .... well.... surprised that she fell. Obviously not hurt. Mom looks back and freaks out and says "oohh you fell, poor baby ohhhh" and starts going on like that. Only after mom starts freaking does the kid start wailing :lmao: I'm sure if she brushed the kid off and said, oh you're fine, the kid wouldn't have cried at all!
 
My Dad's favorite response when one of us got hurt was 'oh, that'll make you tough', followed closely by 'don't worry, it'll feel better when it quits hurting.' :lmao:
 
OK ... here's my story from today and it's so appropriate for this thread!!! As I think of past events w/this mother, I'm surprised she doesn't send the kid to school wrapped in bubble wrap.

This student (Kdg.) came in a few hours late w/Mom in tow. Mom told me that her child was up coughing all night, she didn't know if she should send him to school, so she gave him cough meds, etc. I told her that she could always send along cough drops for him. She said, in a v. shocked tone, "Oh, NO! He might choke on them if I'm not there to supervise!"

The whole time, in my head I'm thinking 'OK, lady ... and he might choke on the PB sandwich you packed for lunch, or on the pretzel he buys in the cafeteria or the cookies we're having at snack'. I mean, a kid can choke just as easily in the cafe as he could in the classroom. Maybe we should just puree his food and hope he doesn't choke on that!?!? And, does she really think I'm going to sit there and watch him choke to death and do nothing about it!?!? I'm trained to do the heimlich, give CPR, etc. If he started choking, we'd start heimlich and call 911 immediately, anyway!

BTW -- same mom will not let her son walk from the office down the hall to my classroom (maybe 7 yards). As of December, parents are supposed to walk their children up the stairs to the office and then say goodbye. This mom insisted on walking him to the classroom so he gets down there safely. What is going to happen to him in the hallway at school? The kids need to learn to be independent and that includes walking themselves to the classroom! The principal even told her she couldn't walk him down anymore and she said she had "issues" w/that b/c of the safety. Fortunately every other Kdg. student walks themselves down the hall so principal told her that she can no longer go down. Now she stands at the office and watches him walk all the way down. Then, after he's walked himself down, she walks herself down the hall and peeks into my classroom to make sure he arrived intact.
 
That is refering to car accidents. It is common knowledge that cars and restraint systems have become better and safer in the last 27 years. I don't think that info is going to suprise anyone.

On the other hand- parents have become wayyyy too protective of their children. Getting ****oos is good for a child- it teaches so many things.


ETA- that says "boo-boos" I forgot the dash.

Actually the statistics are for all child deaths. Accidents of all sorts happen to be the leading cause of death for children, including car accidents. No, child safety seats aren't new news but it still amazes me how many people fail to use them. There is a gray area that we all have to navigate between being rational and being overprotective. I resent being told I am overprotective because I make my kid wear a bike helmet or a life jacket.

By the way, I completely agree about the boo-boo thing. I don't feel terrible if my kid burns her tongue on hot pizza if she has been warned. She also gets to enjoy her bleeding hangnail if she picks at her cuticles. Natural consequences.
 
on our last trip, I remember seeing a little kid fall on the pavement at AK. The kid (probably about 3) lifts herself up and just looks .... well.... surprised that she fell. Obviously not hurt. Mom looks back and freaks out and says "oohh you fell, poor baby ohhhh" and starts going on like that. Only after mom starts freaking does the kid start wailing :lmao: I'm sure if she brushed the kid off and said, oh you're fine, the kid wouldn't have cried at all!

Meet my brother and his wife. Same thing. Kid doesn't cry but they make a big fuss, so she starts balling. Now, at age 7, if she brushes her hand against the door she'll cry like the thing's been severed and is hanging by a thread ... only if she knows someone is watching or in the room. If nobody's around, she doesn't cry at all. Drama queen.
 
If I hurt myself when I was a kid my dad would say "How about I kick your shin? You'll stop thinking about (insert injured body part here)."

:rotfl:
 
If I hurt myself when I was a kid my dad would say "How about I kick your shin? You'll stop thinking about (insert injured body part here)."

:rotfl:
That's what I tell my DS!!! :lmao:
 
OK ... here's my story from today and it's so appropriate for this thread!!! As I think of past events w/this mother, I'm surprised she doesn't send the kid to school wrapped in bubble wrap.

This student (Kdg.) came in a few hours late w/Mom in tow. Mom told me that her child was up coughing all night, she didn't know if she should send him to school, so she gave him cough meds, etc. I told her that she could always send along cough drops for him. She said, in a v. shocked tone, "Oh, NO! He might choke on them if I'm not there to supervise!"

The whole time, in my head I'm thinking 'OK, lady ... and he might choke on the PB sandwich you packed for lunch, or on the pretzel he buys in the cafeteria or the cookies we're having at snack'. I mean, a kid can choke just as easily in the cafe as he could in the classroom. Maybe we should just puree his food and hope he doesn't choke on that!?!? And, does she really think I'm going to sit there and watch him choke to death and do nothing about it!?!? I'm trained to do the heimlich, give CPR, etc. If he started choking, we'd start heimlich and call 911 immediately, anyway!

BTW -- same mom will not let her son walk from the office down the hall to my classroom (maybe 7 yards). As of December, parents are supposed to walk their children up the stairs to the office and then say goodbye. This mom insisted on walking him to the classroom so he gets down there safely. What is going to happen to him in the hallway at school? The kids need to learn to be independent and that includes walking themselves to the classroom! The principal even told her she couldn't walk him down anymore and she said she had "issues" w/that b/c of the safety. Fortunately every other Kdg. student walks themselves down the hall so principal told her that she can no longer go down. Now she stands at the office and watches him walk all the way down. Then, after he's walked himself down, she walks herself down the hall and peeks into my classroom to make sure he arrived intact.

One would have to wonder if he will be "intact" when he reachs adulthood with a mother like that! :scared1:
 


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