The food is great at either one. The Crystal Palace is a bit more adventurous and the Garden Grill is a bit more like home cooking as far as the menu goes.
Crystal Palace is a buffet where you serve yourself. So the kids would be able to get up and get their own food and dessert. This can be a burden or a blessing, depending on how you want to look at it, LOL. Garden Grill on the other hand is family style which means they bring the food to you. At either place you wait at your table (kids sit near the aisle so the characters and be near them for photos) and the characters come to you.
I see you are going in the fall of 2005 so the rehab of The Land shouldn't be a problem for you. The Garden Grill revolves very slowly and a meal usually gets you one spin through the Living with the Land attraction. It's overall a pretty relaxing experience.
Crystal palace can be crowded and can get loud. I am not complaining, just trying to show you the contrasts between the two.
We eat at Crystal Palace every trip to MK because we really like the food and the character interaction.
We have eaten at Garden Grill atleast 4 times and if it wasn't closed we would be eating there this upcoming trip too! :jumping4:
Sorry I can't say "Oh, this ONE definitely" but I think either one is a great choice yet they are different enough for you to choose one if you must.
BTW, if you do choose Garden Grill, ask Pluto what happens when you scratch behind his ears and then do it.................
Have a great time!