By work I meant going back to caring for the kids; I'm a SAHM. My family doesnt want to come down because they are paying for my sisters wedding (you dont want to get me started on this subject because I will FLIP...I'm peeved) which is running min $15,000 right now

confused3). I dont go to church. And as far as friends go...no nobody is really here to help. There are a lot of people who I dont trust around my kids for an hour let alone to care for them. If it came down to HAVING to have it then there are a group of women here who are willing to help, but I dont know any of them (the FRG) and I'm not comfortable w/ some stranger watching my kids (esp after last weekend when my friend took her kid to a CDC on post and we had to call the MPs...not saying anything else on that though as its still under investigation).