Friendship is worth more than anything in the world.

[Cassidy]

Even though most of you are sleeping..
Im gonna go all ******** on you guys for a second.
Whats the point of loving someone, when they dont love you back?

Not like..lovelove. I mean like, how a friend loves a friend.

I can tell you..oh heck. Im just gonna say her name.
KELLEY.
She was my BEST friend last year. And now EVERYTHING is ruined.
Our friendship and MY LIFE.

I totally loved her like a sister.
And I still do.
But she hates my guts because I called her a liar.

I got annoyed with her one day, because I was talking to another girl on msn. And this girl TOTALLY hated her.
And then she was like, "You should spend one week with her, and she gets less annoying."
Or something like that. So im like, ***? You told me you hated her, now shes totally AGAINST me, and now shes your best friend?
What the heck?
And then like, three days later, our friendship just..cut off.
I told her I knew she lied, and she said "That was a long time ago."

Who cares?
It HURTS knowing you think im stupid enough, for you to think that I would believe you.

This other girl says she misunderstood.
Maybe she did.

But I cant tell her that.
I cant talk to her.
Not at all.

She's not..approachable.
If I ever wanted to talk to her, she'd walk away.

Im sorry if im being rude to any of you DISers, but I dont need a hug.
I need to know WHAT TO DO.

I CANT LIVE WITHOUT HER BEING MY FRIEND.
I miss her.
More than ANY of you could even understand.

I need ADVICE.

And, another question.

When your telling the truth, why do people tell you your lying?

I can tell you.
She was one of the best friends I have ever had in my ENTIRE life.
She was nice.
She was trustworthy.
She was my best friend.

You dont even know what I would do, to talk to her again.
To be her friend again.

If we were friends again, I dont know what I'd do.
I'd probably throw a freaking party.


Friendship is worth more than ANYTHING in the world.

 

[PowerMonkey]

well... just because she lied to you doesnt mean she thinks your stupid... its not like she was trying to trick you or outsmart you or anything... your taking it out of context.. and its not like she lied about some life changing thing either.. and actually, you dont even know if she lied from the sounds of it... from what your saying, i think its very possible that she hated the person at first, but got to know them and started liking them.. that happens all the time... its all in the air..


but you know what? that doesnt matter... its one bad part of your history as friends... are you going to let one bad moment ruin all the other good moments that you guys had? imo, you should just go up to her, and just talk it out.. if she walks away, follow her and DEMAND her attention.. just be like... "YO! we need to talk... we gotta settle this, and you know it".. just lay everything straight out... tell her how you value her friendship and dont want to let such a petty thing ruin it... apologize if you have to.. but continuing to ignore eachother and not communicating with eachother is only goign to push you guys further away

 

[Cassidy]

well... just because she lied to you doesnt mean she thinks your stupid... its not like she was trying to trick you or outsmart you or anything... your taking it out of context.. and its not like she lied about some life changing thing either.. and actually, you dont even know if she lied from the sounds of it... from what your saying, i think its very possible that she hated the person at first, but got to know them and started liking them.. that happens all the time... its all in the air..


but you know what? that doesnt matter... its one bad part of your history as friends... are you going to let one bad moment ruin all the other good moments that you guys had? imo, you should just go up to her, and just talk it out.. if she walks away, follow her and DEMAND her attention.. just be like... "YO! we need to talk... we gotta settle this, and you know it".. just lay everything straight out... tell her how you value her friendship and dont want to let such a petty thing ruin it... apologize if you have to.. but continuing to ignore eachother and not communicating with eachother is only goign to push you guys further away

I had proof that she lied. And so what if it wasnt big? She still lied.

And, Im not a brave person when it comes to doing that, I cant just go up to her and talk to her, she has other friends that hate me, and they will be like "Over here!" Or they will be surrounding her, not giving us space.

And yeah, I understand that you can change your feelings for a person. But its just that,

This girl totally despised kelley, when I was friends with kelley.
And now, im not friends with either of these girls, and they are best friends.

 

[PowerMonkey]

I had proof that she lied. And so what if it wasnt big? She still lied.

And, Im not a brave person when it comes to doing that, I cant just go up to her and talk to her, she has other friends that hate me, and they will be like "Over here!" Or they will be surrounding her, not giving us space.

And yeah, I understand that you can change your feelings for a person. But its just that,

This girl totally despised kelley, when I was friends with kelley.
And now, im not friends with either of these girls, and they are best friends.

ok, but heres the thing..... yea, she lied to you... but are you going to dwell on that forever?... because for me at least, i would just forgive and forget.. its like.. "yea, you know what, no one is perfect... and its not like she did anything major like steal from me or anything... she didnt even mean to hurt me.. its something i could look past because this friendship is too important"... sometimes, you just have to let things go... you cant get too choked up about every wrong thing that ever happens... to be honest, this is waaay too small and petty of an incident to break up a friendship imo..

and like i said before... you just have to communicate with her and talk it out... its actually ALL you can do... step up or not, you do have the power to fix things lol.. even if that means you have to step out of your comfort zone

 

[Babyjustrun]

I don't have any advice on the situation in specific...
But.
Everybody lies. It's not the end of the world if you or anyone else lies. Sure, it's not a good idea to lie about big things, but people are going to do it anyways. You shouldn't be mad that she lied unless it was something that was actually important. If it was something silly, get over it.
Honestly, most people probably tell those little tiny lies on a daily basis...