i've started telling my ds6 that we have to pay santa money for the gifts (so he understands why he can't have an endless list), and why he'll get a 'big' item that he wants (a ride on backhoe thing), and his sister (8yo) will get a 'little' gift (mp3 player, jewelry, etc), but they're still *even*. he didn't question it really... I think he could care less *how* the gifts get here, as long as they get here!
btw, dd8 figured out everything about everything last year (santa, tooth fairy, the princesses at disney... everything! no more fun for mommy w/ her!) I think most kids in her 3rd grade class still believe in most everything, but i've told her don't talk about it w/ them to not spoil it for anyone.

btw, dd8 figured out everything about everything last year (santa, tooth fairy, the princesses at disney... everything! no more fun for mommy w/ her!) I think most kids in her 3rd grade class still believe in most everything, but i've told her don't talk about it w/ them to not spoil it for anyone.