Angel Ariel
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While I can see where you are coming from, I don't agree that the system goes against families. I view the choosing of FP the same way I view the choosing of activities on any vacation. For instance, if it were just DH and I, we might choose to take a 5 mile hike in the Smoky Mountains. However, with a 5 year old along with us, I would never choose that because she would get tired and bored and it would end up frustrating us. The same with FP....sometimes as a parent you have to choose something the kids would like because it is their vacation too (if you are choosing to take them with you). Likewise, they are sharing your vacation, so sometimes you choose something you would enjoy instead. Unfortunately, sometimes the choices you have to make when you have kids along are not the preferable choices for you...sure I would rather ride RNR and TOT but when you have kids that don't ride those types of rides sometimes you have to sacrifice and take the FP for TSMM and Beauty and the Beast. I think the same could also be true with other aspects of a Disney vacations as well- I pick restaurants based on what I think my kids will be able to tolerate or based on the characters that may appear, not just on the food offerings as I would if it were just my husband and I.
I think most parents, myself included, understand that you have to make choices on vacations. We just got back from Niagara Falls where my nephews experienced a really cool reenactment at Ft Niagara. We didn't go, we took DD to the falls themselves instead because the canon balls and muskets firing would not have gone over well, and she's really just too little for the experience.
The great part about Disney has always been that we didn't have to make those same types of choices. We experienced what we wanted as adults, and we were still doing Dd activities as well. Can we still do that? Yeah, I'm not saying its impossible. It isn't as easy as it used to be at wdw, though. The pre-planning and the tiers, primarily (for us) have made it more complicated than it used to be. I think, if I'm reading the op correctly, that they feel similarly. It isn't that it is impossible, just more complicated. Some people enjoy the additional planning, some don't. Neither is wrong.
