Motherofboys
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- Joined
- Mar 1, 2006
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Wow. Since I'm in my late 30s and never been married, I'm clearly a weirdo as far as some here are concerned. Good to know.
I see that many who have responded negatively are currently married. Do you have any idea how difficult it can be to meet "the one" once you get out of your 20s?
I'm also wondering: what if we were talking about a 45 year old female virgin? Would the opinions be the same?
It is a lot harder to find the right person after you hit your 30's.....seeing as most of the good ones are usually already married! And some are already married, divorced and have children. I honestly believe that many people just settle for someone "good enough", but that's a whole 'nother topic!

And NO!!! I don't think anyone who isn't married by 30 is a weirdo, or that a virgin at any age is a weirdo either. Some people don't view sex as a learning experience, a fun past time, or simply a physical transaction between two people.......does that make them weird?
I hardly think that people who wait to have sex until they find someone they want to make a lifelong committment to are weird.

Long answer to a short question.....I would've loved to have married a virgin and wouldn't mind teaching a virgin "the ropes"

And I would absolutely NOT have a relationship with a man who had slept with numerous women, talk about fear of committment! And who needs all the worries about HPV, long-lost children, etc?
