For the Ladies only! You look good!

[Dakota_Lynn]

It depends on what exactly is meant by flirting. A compliment is nice, no matter who it comes from. Overt flirting is annoying unless it's coming from a nice girl!

Ok seriously, would most straight men be comfortable if a gay man started flirting with them? I doubt it! Just as most straight women wouldn't want me coming on to them. Most lesbians, myself included, have had to deal with their fair share of the straight man's fantasy of watching two women have sex. There is nothing more offensive to me than having a guy flirt with me with the notion that he is gonna go home with me and participate in sex with me and my partner. But it happens. A lot! A lot of guys don't understand the meaning of the word lesbian. So that is very, very offensive to me.

Now my neighbor is straight and has a nice girlfriend. We hang out with them all the time and sometimes he will tell me I look nice or that he likes my new hair cut of whatever. I find that to be perfectly nice and it makes me feel great. But that isn't flirting; it's just being nice. Nice is nice! I'd never complain at that. But if he started flirting, then our friendship would be over. Eeew, that would be so weird! I should add that if a stranger started flirting, I would set him straight about who I am. If it stopped at that moment, I wouldn't be offended. But if it went on beyond that I would be majorly pissed.

 

[4formickey]

It seems that some ladies are turned off when they feel that the guy is looking for more. We are not all jerks and some of us can really see the beauty of woman and we do respect you guys.It is sad to say but the stero-type of people that date of the same sex is very negative. Men that sleep together is nasty and women are freaky. I don't agree with this but this is what people believe.
( How often does a women ask to join two guy?) For those that get postive compliments just sit back and enjoy it know that someone else sees you as a great person. For those others bad comments, just know that they must grow up.

 

[DVC~OKW~96]

"God, I ADORE good boundaries!"

Thanks! I am all about boundaries!

 

[Adrienne]

if only more people were able to give genuine compliments like you are wanting to 4formickey then the world might be a better place. Isn't it sad that in this day and age we often mistake the kindness of others to be flirting and innuendo.

Ah for a less suspicious world

 

[robinb]

I'm a straight female and I have been flirted with by both genders. If the flirting is obnoxious, then I don't like it. If it's fun, then I don't care what gender the person is. Of course, I'm over 40 and married so much of my flirting days are over .

 

[Grumpy~N~Dopey]

if a stranger started flirting, I would set him straight about who I am. If it stopped at that moment, I wouldn't be offended. But if it went on beyond that I would be majorly pissed.

Thats really what I was trying to say as well .

 

[vascubaguy]

I also have several gay friends who reek of testosterone, tall, dark and handsome, and there isn't any way of knowing they are gay just by looking. So I guess what I am saying is looks don't always tell.

Ole buddy ole pal.... you should stop by sometime... and feel free to bring some of your friends!

Talk, dark, and handsome... you are speakin my language!!!

PS-David, if you read this... I'm just kiddin!