Get the ears, Get the ears!
We actually pre-bought ours on eBay and flew down with them on. It was so cool when we transferred through Hartsfield in Atlanta hearing people saying to their children "Do you know where they're going?" and pointing at us.
Anyway, the ears will not only look very cool, but you also get a lot of perks. For example at CRT breakfast, we got free champagne flutes for both our first anniversary, AND our honeymoon. Very cool. Plus, we've gotten several magical memories certificates, and the re-hitching ceremony at the ice cream social was truly magical.
If you want lots of crazy ear pics, feel free to look here:
http://www.stuartandmelissa.com (under the honeymoon photos, especially)
As for packages. We stayed at the WL in one of the four honeymoon rooms and had (at the time) Honeymoon Discovery Magic. I think it was a little over $4k at the time, and then we ended up blowing about another $1k there and ended up shipping home 3 boxes of souvenirs on UPS
The package did include the magical wishes though (just like the Dream Maker Silver today does) and 90% of our meals were all-inclusive and we of course ordered the most expensive things--steak-lobster, etc.