I'm also an ex-Californian who started visiting DL again in 2003. If money is an issue, I would stay at one of the Good Neighbor hotels across the street -- either Howard Johnson's or Candy Cane Inn on Harbor Blvd. These hotels can be booked for $100 per night or less. If money is less of an issue, I would stay on-site at any of the three hotels (in order of preference -- Grand Californian,
Disneyland Hotel, Paradise Pier). These on-site hotels cost $300+ per night. If you decide to stay on-site, I would recommend getting a package via
AAA and get the unlimited fastpass perk if your family likes to ride rides. If you family doesn't like to ride rides, I would stay at a Good Neighbor hotel.
Other thoughts:
-The Aladdin show at California Adventure is awesome!
-We always go to Matterhorn first since it doesn't have Fastpass.
-We always have lunch at the Blue Bayou on one day.
-We like to stay 4 days. Seems the right amount of time.
-We like the character breakfast at Storytellers at the Grand Californian.
-We wait to Grizzly River Run for when we are heading back to the room, so if we get wet we can change our clothes. You don't want to be soaked and still have more to do.
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Legoland is awesome if your kids like Legos. It is a slower, less hectic park than Disneyland.
-Bring some cheap pins to trade. Kids love that.
-Make sure to get to DL before it opens to take advantage of the short lines first thing ... especially if you don't have unlimited fastpasses.
-Figure out how to use Fastpass before your vacation and then maximize their use.
-Space Mountain will not be running until late 2005
-I would recommend the Unofficial Guide to Disneyland for 2005 as a guide book.
You can't book a regular package using the DL website for 2005 yet. You can call either DL or AAA however to get a package.
Happy planning!