Wilderness Lodge:
You're going to love it there! We stayed there last August so I have a bit of information for you.
-I (having a special needs child), always make my requests when booking (it always helps when the requests are in the system) and then I call the resort directly a few days ahead of time to go over my reservation verbally once more,
-you need to determine what's best for your family, location wise, if you prefer being close to the main lobby/buses then you need to make that known,
-enjoy the lobby, go around and read all of the information about geology and history, and do not miss the information at the base of the fireplace, it's neat,
-they do have mini-refridgerators in the rooms so if you like to snack you can store things in there, the gift shop has a good selection of snack items,
-if you need to get to another Magic Kingdom resort, ask the Bus driver for any bus that comes along where they're going to stop next, some of them will stop at the Polynesian or Grand Floridian...BUT ALWAYS ASK FIRST!! We did this when it was raining and had ressies at the GF and surprisingly, the Downtown Disney bus was going to make a stop at the GF first so we hopped on....PLEASE ASK FIRST.
-try to book a tour of the resort, it's really interesting and don't miss the Geyser's daily erruption, check the front desk for times
Enjoy, it's a beautiful resort and enjoy the rocking chairs in front of the fireplace....so cozy!