I would actually stay at a
DVC resort if your goal is to figure out if DVC is for you. Personally, I think AKV would give you the biggest wow factor. At least do a meal there if you decide not to stay there.
You asked about golf, and I haven't noticed anyone answering it. We actually have my mother on our DVC membership so that she can have a golf membership, and she and her new DH can play using the discounted golf rates. On our last trip, the two of them played the four main golf courses at substantial discounts, and absolutely loved it.
The DVC golf membership costs $50 a year, then lets you play a round for $89, $39, or $59 after 10 am depending on the time of the year. (It is $20 higher before 10am.) You can bring up to 3 guests at that price as well, so my mom and her DH could both play at that rate. (Compare that to the current rates of $154 or $134, depending on the course, per round right now.)
I will say, SSR is a golf resort, and they loved being able to casually walk over to the pro shop and check in. Our view was also of a garden and golf course, and I think they got a kick out of that. They did a completely no park golf trip - they actually told their friends that they were taking a Central Florida golf vacation.
Anyway, the golf perk is great for them. Like all perks, you can't count on it being there forever, so don't buy into DVC for it. But it is wonderful for golfers.