We loved CRT -- it was pretty magical, even with a longish line! We met Cinderella who was very charming and did not rush us in any way and got a family photo and autographs. The photo package is included and is delivered during your meal. When we got upstairs, we were seated and immediately juice, coffee and fruit was flowing! I think we met Snow White (warned us not to take apples from strangers), Auroroa, Belle and the Fairy Godmother (who has a great sense of humor) and all were very in character and charming. There is a wishing star ceremony and girls are given magic wands and boys swords and then a sweet little star as well.
The food was decent and promptly served...felt a little rushed, but I think they just want to get the plates out and not necessarily push you out the door. Many girls dress in costume and many do not...just the kids personal preference. Nobody felt awkward for not dressing up.
Just an FYI, they are opening a BBB in the castle, so I imagine a lot of ADRs will be booked for just after the BBB appt. It may be a little easier to get an ADR, as so many are on the dining plan and don't want to pay 2 TS credits. Maybe that will be a moot point after BBB opens up. Check out the Dining thread for info as well.
It was wonderful, and a bit expensive, but surprisingly, DH said he would do it again. I will take him up on that!