Find Your Own "Directive" - the February Weight Loss / Life Style Change Challenge

Good morning everyone.

QOTD My next goal is to see the Flower and Garden Show. The pictures here are beautiful and I would love to see it. We went to F&W last year and really didn't enjoy it. I don't drink and dh does not like really crazy food so it was kind of wasted on us. But we are looking forward to a time to go to F&F.

I have been off the last few days. Dh's mother died last night and now we have to deal with the wake and the funeral this week. I know very few people will show up to the wake since it is in the middle of the week and from 3 - 7. The funeral is Thursday morning so I have to cancel my Thursday class. My eating has not been great yesterday and today but I will get back on track this afternoon and go from there. Even though I have not eaten that well since yesterday afternoon I have tracked my food so I know where I stand.

Have a happy and healthy day. I am asking for Pixie Dust that dh can make it through this time dealing with his 4 sisters.

It's okay if stuff goes off track a little right now. It's completely understandable. I hope everything goes as smoothly as possible for your husband during this. I know my Aunts really messed with my dad when it came to my grandmothers death so I hope he has an easier time. My thoughts are still with you guys.

Sorry to be MIA - hubby broke right leg early in the week and it's been a whirlwind of ER, surgeon appt, CT, etc

Oh no! I hope he's okay, or will be. It's not normally great news when a surgeon has to be involved.

I was working out on Friday when I fell over and hurt my foot. About a third of it is bruised. It's awful.

Ugh that sounds awful too. Resting it is going to get annoying.
 
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Question of the Weekend - February 20-21
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Let's talk... EPCOT's Flower and Garden Festival

On weekends we take a break from the weight-loss chat and focus on an aspect of Disney Parks. This week's focus is on the
Flower and Garden Festival held annually at EPCOT. If you've ever been to EPCOT in the Spring time, you should be familiar
with the themed topiaries and yummy treats in the World Showcase, plus concerts and other programs through the months.

Share with us your experience(s) with the Flower and Garden Festival.
Favorite topiary? Favorite food? Favorite part?
If you haven't been, do you plan on going?
If you've been and hated it, what didn't you like?

Bar exam is Tuesday and Wednesday. FastPass+ reservation day is Thursday. Guess which one is stressing me out more??????? Ugggghhhh. There is a reason we've been only hanging out in Disneyland the past few years and this is it!!! I logged on to the Dis because I have about 97 last minute questions but started here because I love you all. And I saw all the pictures. And I remembered why we are going. Flower and Garden Festival!!!! Yay!!!! This will be my first Spring trip and I am SO excited to see all of the topiaries. The food booths aren't really calling to me for some reason - I'm far more interested in making it to DisneySprings for my West Coast style corn dog. I may have lived on the East Coast for over half my life now but I'm still a California girl.

I'm actually struggling to make sure we have enough Epcot time scheduled. We unexpectedly have a sibling and a young cousin joining us for his first visit and it has thrown my normal adults only touring plans for a loop. All of our Epcot time is currently during the day and I'm trying to figure out whether I need to find an evening. The World Showcase is beautiful at night but I've seen it lots of times and have no desire to see Illuminations. Giving up the Star Wars fireworks, Boma, and Victoria & Albert's are NOT options (much to DH's dismay). So the choice right now seems to be between no Magic Kingdom on our arrival day (boo!), no evening at Epcot (also kind of a boo!), and doing a triple hop on our last full day.

DH and I are heading to NYC for a long weekend starting Friday and then I'm ready to be fully back on plan for March as I've only got two months to make sure a certain new dress zips! And I have no idea how much damage I've done in the last month of pretty much unrestrained study snacking. :)
 
Well I went skating just left my DD home with my brother who wasn't feeling well. My friend's son was here and I took him to exchange but he had his PS4 in the back of the truck and didn't want a chance anyone would see us move it until after so I stayed since I wanted to skate anyway. DD was not up for it because she needed her down time and Saturday we were out the majority of the day at the kid's party(he came home with us so my brother could help him get the updates on his new game system) so she just didn't want to go. I think we are going Friday with her school's skate night 6-9pm and I might die out there with crowd of teens. LOL If I survive we might do lessons Saturday morning and the 3 hour session following. Fo me I want to get better at stopping so I can ease my anxiety about having to stop fast and falling and her 5 and 10 year olds to get more lessons and pointers to help them beyond what my brother and I have showed them. Hopefully the could ditch the skate mate helpers that run $5 to rent.

I'm wore out from that and 30 minutes of Just Dance I did before. DD is doing Just Dance again. I said maybe I'd join her again in a little bit.
 
Today has been.... emotionally draining with unnecessary family drama. Unfortunately I didn't get my 6 mile run in because I spent the better part of this evening crying. But the good news is that it is happening tomorrow after work. Because I will make it happen so for those who couldn't do it today can join me tomorrow as I make up my run. :)

The good news is that I stayed within my calorie limits and didn't eat my sadness. I've learned that those who are important and will make the effort are worth keeping in my life and those who make excuses are not worthy of my time -- feeling really rational about this situation... So applause for small progress!
 

Question of the Day -- February 22
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Let's talk... Guessing Games & Food Portions

Serving sizes and food portions can be a pain. Ever try going to the movies and realizing that a portion of
M&M's is equivalent to a "fun size" bag? (And let's be real - that's not fun! You want to eat more of those M&Ms!)
Losing weight and maintaining it is a guessing game. How you choose to participate is key to your success.

How do you manage portion control? Are there any tips or tricks to share?
How have your eating habits improved as a result?
What challenges are you having with portion control and resisting eating more than you should?
 
I have been off the last few days. Dh's mother died last night and now we have to deal with the wake and the funeral this week. I know very few people will show up to the wake since it is in the middle of the week and from 3 - 7. The funeral is Thursday morning so I have to cancel my Thursday class. My eating has not been great yesterday and today but I will get back on track this afternoon and go from there. Even though I have not eaten that well since yesterday afternoon I have tracked my food so I know where I stand.

Have a happy and healthy day. I am asking for Pixie Dust that dh can make it through this time dealing with his 4 sisters.

I am very sorry for your families loss. Isn't it amazing how families are difficult in time that bring them together - heighted emotions have that affect I suppose. I hope your DH copes okay.

Sorry to be MIA - hubby broke right leg early in the week and it's been a whirlwind of ER, surgeon appt, CT, etc

Hope hubby recovers well from the broken leg.

I was working out on Friday when I fell over and hurt my foot. About a third of it is bruised. It's awful.

At least it was done doing the right thing working out! That isn't good though hope it gets better soon.

Today has been.... emotionally draining with unnecessary family drama. Unfortunately I didn't get my 6 mile run in because I spent the better part of this evening crying. But the good news is that it is happening tomorrow after work. Because I will make it happen so for those who couldn't do it today can join me tomorrow as I make up my run. :)

The good news is that I stayed within my calorie limits and didn't eat my sadness. I've learned that those who are important and will make the effort are worth keeping in my life and those who make excuses are not worthy of my time -- feeling really rational about this situation... So applause for small progress!

Oh no families are the worst sometimes. Good for you for staying in track with your eating.

On that note after a really horrible day at work, I had to pick up a few things for dinner. I went down the potato chip aisle fully intending to indulge and grab a packet for desert but I was shocked to find myself walking out the other end with no bag of chips! so another small progress in that area.

So much sad news and injuries at the moment in our group so :grouphug: and pixiedust: for all who need it.

Let's talk... Guessing Games & Food Portions
Serving sizes and food portions can be a pain. Ever try going to the movies and realizing that a portion of
M&M's is equivalent to a "fun size" bag? (And let's be real - that's not fun! You want to eat more of those M&Ms!)
Losing weight and maintaining it is a guessing game. How you choose to participate is key to your success.


How do you manage portion control? Are there any tips or tricks to share?
How have your eating habits improved as a result?
What challenges are you having with portion control and resisting eating more than you should?

A fun size bag of M&Ms is just getting started and makes you want more!
I am just learning to manager portion control so I don't have any big tips here apart from the old using a smaller plate.
Although I must say I have started shopping at Costco and getting the big bags of Doritos etc - but here's the thing by doing this I would put a small handful in a bowl and then stop. Whereas usually when buying the smaller sized bags at the local supermarket I would eat from the bag and stop when done! Who knew buying a bigger bag would mean I ate less lol.
MFP is helping at the moment.
Challenges are resisting those favourites or thinking "I'll just finish that off rather than waste it" need to listen to that full feeling.
 
I skipped from pages 29- this one because I just don't have time this morning to catch up from Wednesday ACK!! soooo I see lots can use Hugs and Smiles for many issues so this hopefully covers them all .. Also welcome @ski_mom !

QotD - Portion control.. 1 bag doesn't equal 1 serving - still working on this with some items like crunchy Cheetos for one and I have a hard time with one serving of cereal if I am eating in a bowl with milk (well a Vanilla atkins shake) however if I am putting it in my yogurt I'm good with just one serving.. there are something that are a perfect portion in a snack baggie - like veggies straws which I do portion out correctly.
 
The weekend in St Louis was a success.

I ended up not going out Friday night with some of our coaches because I knew I would be tempted to eat crap and drink. For the first time, probably ever, I thought to myself that I would get more enjoyment out of seeing the scale go down than going out and eating wings and drinking beer. I ended up getting a salad through room service and going down to listen to the Friday night speaker (something I've never done before because we always went out on Friday nights).

Saturday was some more firsts - I went down to the gym early and did the treadmill for 5,000 steps. Never would have done that before. The weather was so great (74*) that during the afternoon I went and walked around Busch Stadium and got another 5,000 steps in. That evening I met up with my wife and we hit Ruth's Chris Steakhouse with another couple. Ended up splitting stuffed mushrooms, got a caesar salad (a 500 calorie caesar salad!), and a filet. I also had a couple of Ultra's with my meal and my day totals were just over 2,000 calories. That's more than I usually have and I was a little nervous, but my weigh in Sunday morning resulted in a 3/4 lb loss! I'm now down 26 1/2 pounds since Jan 1.

On to some of the questions:

Question of the Weekend - February 20-21
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Let's talk... EPCOT's Flower and Garden Festival

On weekends we take a break from the weight-loss chat and focus on an aspect of Disney Parks. This week's focus is on the
Flower and Garden Festival held annually at EPCOT. If you've ever been to EPCOT in the Spring time, you should be familiar
with the themed topiaries and yummy treats in the World Showcase, plus concerts and other programs through the months.

Share with us your experience(s) with the Flower and Garden Festival.
Favorite topiary? Favorite food? Favorite part?
If you haven't been, do you plan on going?
If you've been and hated it, what didn't you like?

Never been to F&G before, but our next stay is scheduled after our cruise in 2017 - March 16th through the 19th, so I really hope we get the chance to go then.

Question of the Day -- February 22
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Let's talk... Guessing Games & Food Portions

Serving sizes and food portions can be a pain. Ever try going to the movies and realizing that a portion of
M&M's is equivalent to a "fun size" bag? (And let's be real - that's not fun! You want to eat more of those M&Ms!)
Losing weight and maintaining it is a guessing game. How you choose to participate is key to your success.

How do you manage portion control? Are there any tips or tricks to share?
How have your eating habits improved as a result?
What challenges are you having with portion control and resisting eating more than you should?

The only way I really manage it is by not eating it. Now, I'm fine with some foods and snacks - kind of like my B list. Sure they are good, but they are not my absolute favorites. We have Oreos in the house all the time for my kids, and I'm never really tempted to grab one. I like them, but I'm able to control myself on those.

When it comes to my A list, like cookie dough, peanut butter cups, or doughnuts, I just can't do it. I can't control myself on those things. If I eat one, I'm going to eat 30. Those are the things I really struggle with. A few nights ago we went to Chili's for dinner after getting our taxes done. We normally don't order deserts, but the skillet chocolate chip cookie looked incredible, I wanted to get one to share... but I knew I wouldn’t be able to control myself, so we ended up not getting it and just grabbing the kids some McDonalds ice cream on the way home. I guess I just know that with some things, I can't resist eating more than I should.
 
Good morning everyone.

QOTD My next goal is to see the Flower and Garden Show. The pictures here are beautiful and I would love to see it. We went to F&W last year and really didn't enjoy it. I don't drink and dh does not like really crazy food so it was kind of wasted on us. But we are looking forward to a time to go to F&F.

I have been off the last few days. Dh's mother died last night and now we have to deal with the wake and the funeral this week. I know very few people will show up to the wake since it is in the middle of the week and from 3 - 7. The funeral is Thursday morning so I have to cancel my Thursday class. My eating has not been great yesterday and today but I will get back on track this afternoon and go from there. Even though I have not eaten that well since yesterday afternoon I have tracked my food so I know where I stand.

Have a happy and healthy day. I am asking for Pixie Dust that dh can make it through this time dealing with his 4 sisters.

Sending pixie dust to you and your family.
 
How do you manage portion control? Are there any tips or tricks to share?
How have your eating habits improved as a result?
What challenges are you having with portion control and resisting eating more than you should?

We use Ziplock bags and portion out the appropriate quantities when we get home from the grocery store. Then we put all of the smaller snack bags into one big bag for the pantry.

it makes it easier to log into FitnessPal or take foods along with us for lunches :)
 
We use Ziplock bags and portion out the appropriate quantities when we get home from the grocery store. Then we put all of the smaller snack bags into one big bag for the pantry.

it makes it easier to log into FitnessPal or take foods along with us for lunches :)

I like the idea of doing it on the weekend after going to the grocery store. I do it at night when I'm packing my lunch and usually measuring food/adding everything to MFP is the last thing I want to be doing. I might have to start doing after grocery shopping - thanks for the tip!
 
Please remember to post your results if you haven't done so already - I'll give you until 9pm PST so I can post them before I go to bed.
 
I'm just mastering portion control... last week I discovered the bar code scanning function in the WW ap (a life changer), and this week I am going to be getting a food scale. I am by nature a grazer, so something like a cut up apple is ideal for me because I can keep munching away at it. Fortunately I'm not chip driven because that's something I would keep mindlessly shoving in my face, even though I don't love them.

I am a sugar addict, it's my drug of choice, so the best strategy is to stay away because one little bite is never just one little bite. A bag of cookies or box of chocolates could be consumed in one sitting... a quart of ice cream gone in an evening. For my upcoming WDW trip I will plan to have an ice cream martini in France, my one extravagance and with two full scoops it will be more than enough to satisfy, but the thing that worries me is the hot fudge sundae at the POP ice cream counter... it's been my downfall more than once.
 
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I actually got a food scale to keep myself in check even with padta servings. Turns out protiens are waaaaay more than I though and anything with a starch is way less. I've gotten into such a good habit with it that it's getting pretty easy to eyeball correct serving sizes.

My issue is when I don't care and eat it all anyway lol.

@Oneanne tell me about Pop! I'm having my first stay in april! I'm excited about this resort. Any suggestions on what decade to stay in or high floor? I put in a request for a water view and high floor.
 
I also portion control using baggies, other than that I've been wanting to get a scale, because right now with meats and other food, I am usually guessing on the portion size.

Update: Just put me at 0%, last week was a total bust.
 
I actually got a food scale to keep myself in check even with padta servings. Turns out protiens are waaaaay more than I though and anything with a starch is way less. I've gotten into such a good habit with it that it's getting pretty easy to eyeball correct serving sizes.

My issue is when I don't care and eat it all anyway lol.

@Oneanne tell me about Pop! I'm having my first stay in april! I'm excited about this resort. Any suggestions on what decade to stay in or high floor? I put in a request for a water view and high floor.

fLvy --- Yes, I like to request upper floor/lake view rooms, which have been at the end of the 50's and 60's buildings. I'm always taking a red eye from the west coast and have had good luck getting one of those rooms when I'm on the non-stop that gets in really early (I think it's because I'm pathetically draped over the check-in counter barely awake and they feel sorry for me) but haven't been so lucky when on connecting flight that get me in mid-day.

The bus service at POP is super... actual queues to line up in and dedicated buses, no sharing with other resorts. Plus the location is so central it is quick to get to and from the parks. It's easy to walk over to AoA, as they have different options in their food court. I'm usually at WDW solo, so I like coming and going thru the main/central building (the only problem being the ice cream counter) and like resorts that aren't too big.
 
Question of the Day -- February 22
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Let's talk... Guessing Games & Food Portions

Serving sizes and food portions can be a pain. Ever try going to the movies and realizing that a portion of
M&M's is equivalent to a "fun size" bag? (And let's be real - that's not fun! You want to eat more of those M&Ms!)
Losing weight and maintaining it is a guessing game. How you choose to participate is key to your success.

How do you manage portion control? Are there any tips or tricks to share?
How have your eating habits improved as a result?
What challenges are you having with portion control and resisting eating more than you should?
I have to admit, our household is very portion-control aware. I've mentioned in the past that my daughter has type 1 (juvenile) diabetes and her insulin dosage varies with the number of carbohydrates she eats, so it's very important to know whether her apple has 10 or 20 carbs or whether she is eating 1/2 cup or 2 cups of cereal. Having to understand portion sizes for her health has led me to know and understand portion sizes really well. I'm a very good guesser for foods that I know well.

We have and use a food scale in our house and (I've also mentioned this before), we also use measuring cups as serving spoons when we eat a family style dinner. It's not as accurate as a food scale (a loosely backed measuring cup is different than a jam packed one), but it's accurate enough while allowing us to eat with a semblance of "normalcy".

As far as challenges and eating more than I should - I do my best stay away from foods that I may eat too much of. We also have a rule in the house that no one eats straight from the container. We instituted it when our daughter was diagnosed because it seemed unfair that her brother could grab the bag of chips and eat straight from it while she had to weigh and measure, but it's a good habit for everyone in the house. I break it sometimes and I get really mad at myself (hello - handful of goldfish crackers that I know is less than a serving size but am never sure exactly how much less). My absolute favorite food is ice cream and I never eat it from the container that I have at home for the kids. If I get it, I will go out of my way and drive to DQ or wherever so that they do the portion control. One spoonful from the container at home would turn into the whole container.
 
Thanks for all the well wishes for my dh. He is handling it okay so far and I know he will do alright with the funeral. It is having the will settled in a timely manner is what he is worried about with one of his sisters.

QOTD I have been reading a lot of labels to help with portion control. I have been using a measuring cup to help portion out oatmeal and milk in the morning. I will probably try to get a scale in the next month or so to help on this journey.

Off to make a list of what we need to do this week to get ready for Music Man in 2 1/2 weeks. The straw hats came today:yay::yay:.
 
Question of the Day -- February 22
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Let's talk... Guessing Games & Food Portions

Serving sizes and food portions can be a pain. Ever try going to the movies and realizing that a portion of
M&M's is equivalent to a "fun size" bag? (And let's be real - that's not fun! You want to eat more of those M&Ms!)
Losing weight and maintaining it is a guessing game. How you choose to participate is key to your success.

How do you manage portion control? Are there any tips or tricks to share?
How have your eating habits improved as a result?
What challenges are you having with portion control and resisting eating more than you should?


@donac sorry for your loss.

Sound like alot of people are having a tough few days. Hugs to you all and hope everything gets better or heals quickly.

I keep a scale in my kitchen and use it for portion control for many items. I will also use measuring cups for stuff. Pasta is the worst for me and have to measure because I could easily take a mountain of noodles and eat them all. Pasta is so high in calories. MFP helps me also.
 
fLvy --- Yes, I like to request upper floor/lake view rooms, which have been at the end of the 50's and 60's buildings. I'm always taking a red eye from the west coast and have had good luck getting one of those rooms when I'm on the non-stop that gets in really early (I think it's because I'm pathetically draped over the check-in counter barely awake and they feel sorry for me) but haven't been so lucky when on connecting flight that get me in mid-day.

The bus service at POP is super... actual queues to line up in and dedicated buses, no sharing with other resorts. Plus the location is so central it is quick to get to and from the parks. It's easy to walk over to AoA, as they have different options in their food court. I'm usually at WDW solo, so I like coming and going thru the main/central building (the only problem being the ice cream counter) and like resorts that aren't too big.

I'm a solo too so all this is very good to hear. As much as I loved Riverside I got lost a few times when I was let off at the stops that weren't the main one.
 












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