Our Disney Wedding was technicaly a vow renewal as we were married ealier at city hall in NYC. I like to liken it that experience to getting your drivers license!
I refer to the city hall thing as when we got married, but Disney was our wedding!
Our planner Tanis and Rosie who does the floral, entertainment and photo coordination for Escape brides knew (and of course so did Rev. Miller) but never once did they refer to it as a vow renewal. They all knew this was our wedding, not a renewal of vows that we said in about 30 seconds without DH's family even there!
In fact, we are planning on doing a vow renewal, maybe even 2! One at 5 years and one at 10! simply because our Disney wedding was the most amazing experience ever.
Good luck to you! If you read through a bit of my PJ/TR, you can see our civil ceremony at city hall and I'm just about to get to our Diisney wedding experience...
HTH!