Bobby, I'm glad you began your post with "personally", since that tags it as opinion and makes it easier for me to disagree without foment. I have an opinion too, wanna hear it, here it go! While I certainly agree that nobody needs to know the "gory details" about this tragedy (in the same way nobody needed to see pictures inside Princess Di's limo!) but I disagree that we don't deserve to know what went wrong, and to know that the proper measures are taken to prevent it happening again. We deserve to know this as much as we deserve to hear the reports from the NTSB after an airline crash. Disney is in a very public business and makes safety decisions that affect tens-of-thousands of people every day. If there is no transparency, then there is no reason to believe they are making those decisions in the best interest of the public and not their bottom line.
As for the young man's privacy, I hope my posting his name and suggesting folks could see a picture of him on Facebook were seen as invasive. Frankly, my heart broke all the more knowing just these few snippets about him and it makes me feel a stronger connection to the tragedy, and more sincere about my desire to pray for his friends and family. I certainly didn't do it for any lurid or sensationalist reasons... but you'd have to have spent some time around here to know that such motivations are just not in me.