This is our plan for the beginning of August. It will be me, DH, DS5 and then DH's little sisters (11 & 14). DS has been before, and does very well full day park, no nap/rest (I usually have to force him to slow down long enough to eat lunch). Makes me tired just thinking about all his energy! The girls have never been, but are always on the go type people...
8/2-arrive noonish to ASMu (family suite)-DTD/DQ w/dinner at Rainforest Cafe, then Cirque.
8/3-AK at open, with hop to MK for EMH & dinner at Crystal Palace (DS's only request for the trip)
8/4-MK after breakfast at Chef Mickey's
8/5-Resting day/water park (haven't decided which yet) w/ dinner at California Grill for anniversary and fireworks (DH's request. We've been before, and he wanted the kids to see the fireworks from there.)
8/6-Epcot w/ dinner at Le Cellier
8/7-DHS w/ lunch at Sci-Fi
8/8-Wild card park day, the kids get to pick. And with 2 adults, we may split up. Dinner at 1900 Park Fare
8/9-check out and DTD for last minute shopping before heading out of town
I'm sure there will be other hopping involved along the way, too.
I know this will work for us because I know the kids well. We (DH & I) aren't the comando style park goers. We have a general idea of what we want to do, fastpass what we can, and hit the other stuff when we can. We do stop for small rests on a bench or curb to watch people go by. DS doesn't like that too much, but he deals with it ok...as long as he has some popcorn or ice cream, he's happy! If the kids get too bored at the park we're in, we can hop to another, or go back to the resort for swimming, or whatever. Our main thing is to be easy going and enjoy what we can without killing ourselves.
Have fun planning!