Tinker'n'Fun
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I want to thank everyone for all the replies and concerns. I am very grateful for the links they will be helpful. I also have taken in all the different views on choices we have made, and places and people who we now need to see.
For the posters who continue to question what choices my DD and I made regarding finances (and those who are adament that I have cursed her for life), while I do agree that it may not seem the best thing that we have done, its over. First, I am not taking her out of her school for Senior Year, and I am not throwing my daughter out the door the day she graduates and telling her she is on her own. While we haven't budgeted for any loans or expenses for college, if we are able to help we will. I also know that via the FAFSA there will be a family contribution. I need you to trust me that this amount will NOT be the breaking point on which college my daughter goes to. Even if she has to go to a community college because of the choices made, she will persevere and come heck or high water, she will work til she gets what she wants. That is the way she is.
Please, keep the information coming. It is very helpful since this is all new to me. I am making an appt with her guidance counselor and also with a financial company that offers free counseling to the students at my daughters school. So the PSAT's are over, we are awaiting the SAT's and will determine if she needs another course if they are not up to her standards. Her actual grades this year continue to be within very high standards and she is in the top 5% of her graduating class. I am personally going to check out the degree she is planning on persuing. This will be a lot of work for me, and yes the "Dis" will be my release from this world. As for the AP classes we are keeping an open communication and will make the decision after the meeting with the GC and surfing the websites for information.
The most important thing I learned is that no matter what anyone says, College is definetely not cut and dry. No ones situation is the same as their neighbors, schoolmates, and or friends. So I am confident that there is a school out there that wants her and one that she will be able to afford at the same time.
Thank you again, and please keep the information coming. Diane
For the posters who continue to question what choices my DD and I made regarding finances (and those who are adament that I have cursed her for life), while I do agree that it may not seem the best thing that we have done, its over. First, I am not taking her out of her school for Senior Year, and I am not throwing my daughter out the door the day she graduates and telling her she is on her own. While we haven't budgeted for any loans or expenses for college, if we are able to help we will. I also know that via the FAFSA there will be a family contribution. I need you to trust me that this amount will NOT be the breaking point on which college my daughter goes to. Even if she has to go to a community college because of the choices made, she will persevere and come heck or high water, she will work til she gets what she wants. That is the way she is.
Please, keep the information coming. It is very helpful since this is all new to me. I am making an appt with her guidance counselor and also with a financial company that offers free counseling to the students at my daughters school. So the PSAT's are over, we are awaiting the SAT's and will determine if she needs another course if they are not up to her standards. Her actual grades this year continue to be within very high standards and she is in the top 5% of her graduating class. I am personally going to check out the degree she is planning on persuing. This will be a lot of work for me, and yes the "Dis" will be my release from this world. As for the AP classes we are keeping an open communication and will make the decision after the meeting with the GC and surfing the websites for information.
The most important thing I learned is that no matter what anyone says, College is definetely not cut and dry. No ones situation is the same as their neighbors, schoolmates, and or friends. So I am confident that there is a school out there that wants her and one that she will be able to afford at the same time.
Thank you again, and please keep the information coming. Diane
