I'm not an experienced cruiser, but I can share how my Palo schedule panned out on the first pod cast cruise.
Anna (aspen37) and Chris (columnwest) and I were planning on dining at Palo. We booked 6:30 on day 1. I had issues with the website (big surprise, right) and that was about the only open time slot. We had enough time to tour the ship and feel somewhat acclimated as well as put away our clothes and get our cabins situated. We dressed up. (Looking rather dapper/chic, if I do say so myself.) Our plan was to experience Palo and then join our table mates afterward in the main dining room for our normal dining rotation.
It worked smashingly. Dinner was nicely paced in Palo and Anna, Chris and I got to know one another, since we had only met two days prior. Once our meal was complete and we were full, we sauntered down to Animator's Palette, which was where our dining rotation had us eating that evening, to join our table mates.
Other than being full, a little over dressed, and missing the opening presentation, it was a wonderful time. Chris and I got to meet our table mates, Jeff and Val. Anna was seated with ADP and his DW and DD.
I am so glad we decided to do both instead of skipping the main dining rotation. Even though I didn't eat any food at Animator's Palette, the company was outstanding. Jeff and Val even got me to try fish. (Yuck, still. By the way.

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