Please don't apologize for me. Disney has set a height and no, there is no wiggle room on it. And yes, it is against the rules here to share ideas or ways to get around any of Disney's rules, even the height restriction. I was actually being sincere when offering that MKNJ may not no that was against the rules, they certainly are not the first to post something like that. Note that I didn't attack and say "Be gone heathen rule breaker!!".
And yes, I have seen them take kids shoes off, and I have seen them push down on hair. But then, I have also seen parents distract a CM while one slipped by with another child. You see all sorts of stuff when family members like rides you do not so you wait behind.