Ok, I actually e-mailed them and asked them the questions so i could get a bunch of possibilites of why this is happening but first try like i suggested it. un-install and re-install. Hope this helps! (i know exactly how you feel!)
You can get the Shockwave Player uninstaller here:
Windows
http://sdc.shockwave.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=SWUninstall&P2_Platform=Win32
Mac OS
http://sdc.shockwave.com/shockwave/download/index.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=SWUninstall&P2_Platform=MacPPC
Then reinstall here:
http://www.macromedia.com/software/shockwaveplayer/
In some cases, it's actually the browser which prevents the successful
installation
of Shockwave Player. In such instances, simply reinstalling
Shockwave Player
may not work. Reinstalling or updating the browser, then
installing
Shockwave Player should take care of this. If it does not, the issue
may be related
to a corrupted registry. This more serious issue is usually the
result of general difficulty with the computer.
Internet Explorer for Windows users should consider attempting to install the
Players in
Netscape as a troubleshooting step. If you can successfully install
the Shockwave Player
in Netscape, the difficulty you've encountered is almost certainly related to some issue with Internet Explorer.
AOL and CompuServe users who get errors 1, 10, or 12, or an error indicating
that there's trouble connecting to
www.macromedia.com:
The latest version of Shockwave Player resolves the installation errors you've
encountered. You can download the latest Shockwave Player here:
http://www.macromedia.com/software/shockwaveplayer/
If you are using Internet Explorer for Windows, and when attempting to
download the
Shockwave Player, no dialog boxes appear, you may be experiencing an issue with Microsoft's Install On Demand feature.
If at any time you indicated that you did not wish to install the Macromedia Web Player,
Install On Demand will prevent their subsequent installation.
You can undo this setting with the executables below:
For Shockwave Player
http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/director/shockwaveactivexinstaller.exe
I hope this helps you. Please feel free to contact technical support by replying to
this e-mail if these resources do not answer your questions. Your incident number is 8576947.
Please refer to this number if you need to contact us again about your original correspondence.
If you do not contact us we will close the ticket and assume the problem was resolved.
Best regards,
Technical Support at Macromedia, now part of Adobe Systems