Ever have a huge blow-out with your significant other?

[vivilasvegas]

My boyfriend and I just did, and I have to admit it felt good!!!

We are in the process of looking for a new apartment, among other things, and today (without going into details) it all hit the roof!!!

It started over something simple enough, but then escalated into a yelling match! My throat hurts! You know it's bad when one of my dogs (the big, tough one) is hiding under the bed...or trying to fit anyways!

We do this maybe once a year, (we usually argue "well" ) and I guess tonight was the night.

Of course, it's done, and it ended like it always does, one of us saying something soooo dumb, that we have to start laughing!!

 

[icebrat001]

lol, I say, you are getting on my freaking nerves, can you talk to me in like 2 hours so I can cool off. (Then she sits right next to me, and I say, can you move) Normally things are well after that.

ETA: You know it's funny we you forgot what you were fighting about 5 minutes ago but you continue to be angry because they made you angry.

 

[WonderfulDreamer2]

It has actually been years since we've had a major blow up, but one that comes to mind ended with him driving off to work and me getting mad and throwing my keys at him, which landed in the back of his pick-up...then I was locked out of my car, the apartment...everything. I stood there with a look of amazement. Never in a million years did I think they'd go into the pick-up. I felt like an idiot and sat on the sidewalk for over an hour waiting for him to bring them back. Thats been well over 5 years ago. Looking back, it was our worst fight and we laugh about it now.

 

[kilee]

Usually about once every 12-18 months I'd say. I know I'm going to curse myself for this---BUT we don't usually fight too often. We can go months w/o a single arguement. I don't keep things bottled up either- we just are really compatible. But when it does happen it happens. Usually we'll end up not talking for the better part of a day.

 

[SDFgirl]

We've been together for 3 years, and have never had a big huge fight. We bicker sometimes and get irritated, but usually we just take a step back and talk it over in a couple of hours.

Now that we're married, I expect it won't be too long before we have a knock-down, drag-out fight!

 

[kristen821]

It has actually been years since we've had a major blow up, but one that comes to mind ended with him driving off to work and me getting mad and throwing my keys at him, which landed in the back of his pick-up...then I was locked out of my car, the apartment...everything. I stood there with a look of amazement. Never in a million years did I think they'd go into the pick-up. I felt like an idiot and sat on the sidewalk for over an hour waiting for him to bring them back. Thats been well over 5 years ago. Looking back, it was our worst fight and we laugh about it now.

This had me cracking up! I am at work and am sure people are thinking that I am losing it!

 

[disneynutt1225]

We've been together for almost 9 years (finally getting married this August, LOL) and I would say we have a major blowout quarterly. 9 times out of 10 it's a stupid fight, and typically ends with us laughing about it an hour or so later. Now that we're planning our wedding, our fights seem to get even more dumb than they usually are ESPECIALLY since I quit smoking 6 weeks ago. Wanna talk about being cranky and emotional? That would be me.

 

[Ratpack]

Funny. yes, ..just tonight! We have been married for over 11 years and dated almost 9 years. So needless to say, we should be all "fought" out! But, this pregnancy has really been havoc on my nerves and emotions. I have never felt so alone and unsupported as I have this time around (third baby). I just needed some time to myself, so at 2 am- I get in my car and drove around for a couple hours. I have never done that..and actually thought of not coming home at all...but I am going into the hospital Monday and was scared of going into labor earlier than expected and being by myself and miles away. So, I came home.
It seems that noone here cares that I even came back.

 

[kristen821]

Funny. yes, ..just tonight! We have been married for over 11 years and dated almost 9 years. So needless to say, we should be all "fought" out! But, this pregnancy has really been havoc on my nerves and emotions. I have never felt so alone and unsupported as I have this time around (third baby). I just needed some time to myself, so at 2 am- I get in my car and drove around for a couple hours. I have never done that..and actually thought of not coming home at all...but I am going into the hospital Monday and was scared of going into labor earlier than expected and being by myself and miles away. So, I came home.
It seems that noone here cares that I even came back.

Pregnancy hormones are terrible. I cried for hours when I spilled mac and cheese into the sink. I was draining the water with the lid. I was so upset I wouldn't even be able to cook for the baby. Dh thought it was so funny and kept laughing. I laughed about it now, but didn't think it was so funny then! Good luck on Monday!

 

[sweet angel]

Yup -- too often. It's not healthy which is why I'm re-thinking things.