horseshowmom
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Look at it this way :
You are the seller (example : Amazon.com)
The buyer orders something (pretend it is you) and it arrives damaged.
If you ordered something from Amazon, and it arrived damaged, would you let it go, or would you call Amazon and ask for a replacement or refund?
It is essentially the same thing. As an ebay seller, you are responsible for the item until it arrives in the hands of the buyer. It sucks, as the post office destroys packages on occasion. And their insurance is a joke. But it is part of being an ebay seller.
This. ^
Thanks for the suggestion about shipping with UPS. I may try that next time, especially when its something that is worth more money.
I had a buyer do the same thing one time....I sent her some great kids clothes and she was saying there were some stains etc...there was not..the clothes were great and she got a great deal. So I told her she could just return the clothes and I would give her full credit. It was after that she decided to keep them and left me positive feedback. I guess she was looking for a discount too, but there was no way I was going to give her one.
Yes, interestingly, mine left me VERY positive feedback afterwards.

I haven't shipped much lately, but back then, UPS and USPS were pretty comparable in cost when shipping a "lot" of items. Definitely not so much if it's only one thing though.