We do second chances all the time. A second chance is for a couple reasons. One, that your first bidder backed out, or two, that you have a duplicate item. If you go to the original auction, it will offer you a chance to do a second chance offering on the top third of the auction.
For myself, if someone gets in contact with me and wants to buy an item I do not have listed on eBay, I have no problem with that, and do it through personal email (not ebays "ask the seller question"). eBay has no rights to items I haven't listed, in spite of what they would like to think IMO. If the person hasn't gotten in touch with you, and you offer them a chance at the item, they can report you and you can be suspended..so in this case the Second Chance offering sounds like the best avenue.
Take a look at the third reason for sending second chances:
You can make a Second Chance Offer to a non-winning bidder when:
The winning bidder does not pay you, or your Reserve Price has not been met.
Note: If sending due to an Unpaid Item, be sure that you have tried to resolve the issue with the original buyer before sending a Second Chance Offer to another bidder.
There is at least one non-winning bidder whoaccepts Second Chance Offers.
You have duplicate items for sale, and want to offer them to non-winning bidders in a single-item auction.
Samandmom said:
Isnt second chance offer when your first bidder doesnt come through and you then can offer to the other bidders? I clicked on second chance offer and it came up with this: