We decided at the last minute to do an Easter trip to Disney (after much internal debate about the selfishness of leaving family on a holiday). I was worrried about getting any good priority seatings but I was able to get every location that I requested and only once did I have to take a reservation twenty minutes later than I requested. I hope that this means that things might not be as hideously crowded as I fear it will be!

But, for the most part, they have accepted it. Wait till they find out we plan on skipping Christmas this year, also
I'd rather face the holiday crowds than some of our family

Have fun!