I'm opting to post this rather than PM because there are often lurkers on these forums with essentially the same kinds of questions.
...curious where you and your family have gone on vacations by trading your timeshare...
Dean's been to more exotic locations.

We generally drive to most of our vacations from the southeast U.S., mixing educational and urban locations with beach, theme park and mountain/nature getaways. Many of our exchanges were for primetime.
The II exchanges used a Marriott week that we owned at the time. The RCI exchanges mostly used our Fairfield (FF) points/week to trade. If it says "(FF)", then we reserved our stay internally with points for a nightly stay (less than a week).
Arizona (September)
Flagstaff & Sedona - FF Flagstaff (FF wk - 2004), FF Sedona (FF pts - 2004)
California (Sept)
Anaheim - FF Dolphin's Cove (RCI, for friends)
Florida (Thanksgiving, Easter, Christmas, May, June, Sept)
Marco Island - Charter Club of Marco Beach (RCI)
Orlando/Kiss/LBV - DVC (DVC pts), Vistana Resort (RCI), HGVC (RCI), Westgate VV (RCI), Marriott Grande Vista (II), Silver Lake (RCI), others for friends (RCI)
Georgia (Oct)
Cleveland - Country Hideaway at Mtn Lakes (RCI)
Hawaii (July)
Kauai - Marriott Kauai Beach Club (II, for friends), Pahio at Bali Hai (RCI, cancelled)
Nevada (Sept)
Las Vegas - FF Grand Desert (FF pts - 2004)
New York (March)
New York City - The Manhattan Club (RCI)
North Carolina (July)
Lake Lure - FF Mountains (RCI)
Pennsylvania (Jan - family funeral)
Poconos, PA - Shawnee ??? (RCI)
South Carolina (all summer, but 1 spring break)
Hilton Head Island - DVC (DVC pts & II), Marriott Monarch (II)
Myrtle Beach - FF Westwinds (RCI)
Tennessee (every season)
Nashville - FF Nashville (RCI - 2004)
Sevierville - FF Smoky Mountains (FF pts [x2], RCI [2004])
Vermont (June)
Smugglers Notch - Smugglers Notch (RCI, for friends)
Virginia (every season)
Washington DC - FF Alexandria (FF pts)
Williamsburg, VA - FF Kingsgate (FF pts)
Williamsburg, VA - FF Patriots Place (RCI)
...I'm still on the fence on whether or not we want to vacation at Disney as often as DVC would warrant.
If you would vacation at DVC resorts (WDW, HHI, Vero) at least every other year, you could buy fewer points per year, then bank & borrow to provide for those DVC trips. That's a nice way to get the most out of DVC points. HTH!
