You have to prioritize what is important.
DVC didn't get you into the amount of debt you have. Your everyday spending did. Do you spend money on everyday luxuries like lunches out and or dinners out, coffees, donut, snacks or do you spend money on clothes, shoes, vacation, big ticket items. And out of this spending do you really need these items or could you wait.
Until you confront what got you into debt in the 1st place selling your DVC won't help you because you will be back into debt again and than you won't have your DVC. Its like a food diet. How many people do you know that can lose weight but not keep it off. You need to find out why you over spend and than stop overspending ( its not easy-- we all have our vices- for me its chocolate). If your going to be frugal you need to keep some luxuries or you'll blow it.
The most important thing to do is to see where your money goes every day. You could be spending money on things you don't even realize.
4 years ago my MIL was $7000 in debt. I drew up a budget which listed her needs (rent, car expenses, food, utilities) then I gave her her wants (going out to eat money, spending money, holiday & birthday present money etc). Its important to keep your wants but try to spend half of what you usually spend. (for example, if you get your haircut every 6 weeks try to go 8 weeks, if you go out to eat 2 times per week, either spend half (get soup and salad) of what you usually spend or only go 1 time per week. By doing that I was able to apply about $400 to her debt per month (money she was pissing away on high interest cc and stupid things.)
She was paid weekly and every 3rd month for those of you that get paid weekly you have 5 checks in the month instead of 4. If you learn to live on 4 paychecks a month (set up your budget for 4 paycheck per month) than every 3rd month you get a "free" paycheck that you can apply to your debt. Within 8 months she was out of debt, had bought a new car, and found a better apartment that included heat.
Follow Oprahs advice and see how you are doing in 3 months. Then decide if you should sell or not. Like alot of other poster said- renting out your points is a better option at this point because it could at least pay your MF and some of your payments with that money. Good luck to you!!! You can do it!!!
