Dumped at 35

[Stacy's a freak]

It's 6:30 a.m. on a Sunday and I can't sleep. Forgive me for spewing my problems into the WWW but I'm still trying to wrap my head around this. So he said those dreaded words (after 2 1/2 years, mind you), "I love you but I'm not IN LOVE with you." Well, in the words of Bill Murray in The Royal Tennenbaum's, 'well, I want to die.' A little melodramatic ... yes. But after a failed marriage at 30 and this at 35, I'm feeling really raw right now.

So thanks for letting me vent to my DISupport group. Anyone know of any elligible bachelors in the central ny area with all of his teeth and a respectable job? kidding ...

 

[wishspirit]

It's 6:30 a.m. on a Sunday and I can't sleep. Forgive me for spewing my problems into the WWW but I'm still trying to wrap my head around this. So he said those dreaded words (after 2 1/2 years, mind you), "I love you but I'm not IN LOVE with you." Well, in the words of Bill Murray in The Royal Tennenbaum's, 'well, I want to die.' A little melodramatic ... yes. But after a failed marriage at 30 and this at 35, I'm feeling really raw right now.

So thanks for letting me vent to my DISupport group. Anyone know of any elligible bachelors in the central ny area with all of his teeth and a respectable job? kidding ...

I don't know what to say but

Don't worry about venting, we will always be here for you on the Dis!

 

[QuirkyButterfly]

You poor thing, we are all here for you. I know that it is difficult now but just remember that you have your friends here and we will be thinking of you.

 

[OKW Lover]

I don't know if this will help but:

As to looking for somebody new, this might help: ixiedust:

And don't confine your search to your local neighborhood. Magically, I actually met my wife at WDW. Its a wonderful place to leave the real world behind.

 

[Mouse Skywalker]

I'm so sorry to hear this Stacy. We're here for you. Hang in there.

 

[IWISHFORDISNEY]

What a creep........Ooops did I say that. hang in there it is so hard. We are here vent away!

 

[mikelan6]

I'm so sorry to hear this. I know how this fees as I broke with my partner of five years last week. It was not an easy decision - I had thought about it long and hard for months. What made me decide for sure was finding missing cash in my "emergency lock box" - that was just on top of all the other lies he always told me. I just could not live with him any more and I know that I could rather be happy alone rather than miserable with him. I don't think I could ever fully trust him again.

Good luck to you Stacy !!! ... and both of us.

 

[dpuck1998]

 

[Bornteach]

Stacey-

I know what you are feeling, you can't believe you have to start all over again.....I am so sorry for your pain.

Although I am not sure it helps, I am always a firm believer in things happen for a reason. THere are still a couple of events I am waiting to understand but hopefully yours will become clear sooner.

I am sorry for your pain but we are here for you!

 

[scarlett873]

Been there, done that...have the divorce papers to prove it.

Hang in there!!

 

[Stacy's a freak]

I'm so sorry to hear this. I know how this fees as I broke with my partner of five years last week. It was not an easy decision - I had thought about it long and hard for months. What made me decide for sure was finding missing cash in my "emergency lock box" - that was just on top of all the other lies he always told me. I just could not live with him any more and I know that I could rather be happy alone rather than miserable with him. I don't think I could ever fully trust him again.

Good luck to you Stacy !!! ... and both of us.

to you too! I'm so sorry that you had to go through that Trust is so important - it makes a person feel so disrepected to be lied to. In my case, I guess I'm thankful that he was finally honest with me in the end but if I hear that Meatloaf song "Two Outta Three Ain't Bad" ever again I'm going to punch the radio!

Thanks everyone for your kind thoughts. I really do appreciate them!!

 

[*NikkiBell*]

Double hugs and pixie dust coming your way, Stacy!

 

[TXYankee]

I am sorry you have to go through this. I wish you a future full of love.

 

[SamSam]

What better place to vent than here with all your DIS friends.
Hang in there, and remember sometimes are you can do is 'just breathe".

 

[cocowum]

 

[msteddom]

I'm so sorry.

Melissa

 

[parrotheadlois]

Oh Stacey

Men.......such commitment-phobes

I'm soooo sorry....

 

[Disneydonnam]

Stacey,
I am sorry you are going through this. It will get easier as time goes on. We just had to help my brother in a similar situation. He was with his girlfriend for 5 yrs. He booked an awesome three wk vac to take her on and was getting ready to look at houses for the both of them. Out of the blue she comes out with how do I know you are the one I want to be with. She told him she wanted to date others and find out if he is who she wanted to be with. You will find out in time you are better off.

 

[dvcfamily41801]

Awww Stac..Im sorry! Hang in there and we are all here for you.

 

[SGB13]

I know words may not help, but hope the and can. Besides 35 is young!