I know - I did not agree with anything in that rating list I believe. We found the Swan to be exceptional or I would not be returning!
My kids were always treated with respect except for one incident with my son which turned out to be funny in the long run. (He purchased $$$$ worth of stuff from either one of the golf courses or one of the stores and had it sent to the Swan - the one gal wouldn't let him pick it up because his name was not listed on our room listing - I thought it was funny because he had picked up everything I had bought for days before that!!! But the stuff he wanted and paid for he couldn't get!!!) And then they didn't treat his disrespectfully - she was doing her job!
Regardless - my DD who was 9 last year LOVED it there. Everyone was so polite to her and they were great when we did some mild special food requests at Tubby's etc.