Does this sound like a true "friend" or not?

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I have this so-called friend named Katie. She has different personalies for every person. Actually, with the guys, she has a nice personality, but for me, she has a mean and totally rude personality. She treats her friends, including me, like trash. She insults my friend Dominquie all the time. "You are soooooooooooooooooooooo dumb!!" "Oh yeah, I forgot, she doesn't know how to read..." And tons of other uncalled for things. Of course, she's never said any of those things to me.
She even has a "Death List." Which is a list of people she wants, well, dead. I'm on the list as well. She always says "Oh...You're SUCH a good friend! Unlike Allison is!" I said "Why the heck should I be nice to YOU, when you're never nice to me back? Huh?" She said "That's my personality." I was thinking "Your personality sucks then."
My "friend" needs therapy BADLY. She is NOT misunderstood-something is seriously wrong with her that she won't tell ANYONE. =/
 
If she needs help then she is incapable of doing better. If she continues this after proven that she doesnt need help then she a terrrible "friend" if u even want to call her that
 
I COMPLETLY UNDERSTAND ALI. I THINK SHE MIGHT NEED THERPY TOO. TALK TO HER ABOUT THIS AND LIKE TELL HER TO BE TRUTHFUL. IF THAT DOESN'T WORK, GET SHELLY XD
 
Why is this your so-called "friend?" I would see it more of just another person.
 

Why is this your so-called "friend?" I would see it more of just another person.
Sometimes she's nice to me, and sometimes she's just..not. I don't know why I call her my friend, she doesn't treat me like one. It doesn't help that she's in all of my classes. =/
 
Well if shes a real friend she should be someone you can trust, open up 2, someone who will always be there for you, and someone you can run to no matter what and she should be a friend who treats you the right way.
 
something tells me she should be seeing a therapist. see if you can help her see one. if not, you have to decide if her friendship is really worth being treated so badly. if you can and things dont change, then no, shes not your friend
 
She could just be a truly horrible person but she also could have a personality disorder. That can mean that she's not truly in control of her thoughts and emotions and consequently her tongue. It can also mean that she doesn't quite realise the consequences of her actions, lacks social skills and just doesn't really know what appropriate behaviour is. That death list thing is a good example. Sometimes people with certain types of illnesses and disorders don't realise the seriousness and extremes of things.

I'll admit that i'm one of those people that get easily irrated and annoyed have a no patience what so ever and when angered lash out. Sometimes i can't control it. I've punched my best friends jaw upwards so that she bit her tongue. Trust me the second i did that i regretted it. I just didn't have any control. So maybe she's just like me without the violence but maybe a bit more extreme in oher ways.
No i'm not proud of being like that but i seriously can't control it, i don't tend to lash out physically that much you have to give me a good reason
 


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