SydneesMom
Earning My Ears
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I don't know why JetBlue keeps promoting their "larger than average" A320 seat. According to seatguru.com, the seat width is 17.8 inches. The A320s flown by UA, US Airways, and Frontier have a seat width of 18 inches. Virgin America's is a whopping 19.7 inches. All wider than JetBlue.
We've flown with Southwest a couple times before and I know of their policy of overweight/obese people having to pay for an extra seat. Even though I fit into this category, I never had to buy the extra seat. Thankfully. We leave on Jet Blue in 3 weeks and I've been looking on their website but can't find any info on this policy. Does anyone know?
Hubby says that there are 3 seats to a row. I plan on sitting with both my teenaged boys and hubby will sit in another seat. So I really don't see a problem but I'd like to know ahead of time for sure.
I just think it's a matter of what is fair for whoever. I was in a three seat wide situation several years ago, and was in the middle seat with a pooh sized person on each size (I'm 5'2" petite). Well, I would not have complained (just endured) but they both decided that the arm rests should be up between us. I politely asked that they be put down, because I was only using 1/3 of my seat. They complied, BUT, they each used both their arm rests while I had none, so still only had about 1/2 my seat. I never said another word, but vowed I would not accept such a situation again silently. I paid for a whole seat like they did, but they each had 1 1/2 seats each. because they flowed over the armrest and under it also.
By the way, I don't consider myself a fat-phobic responder, just need my comfort and consideration while flying also.
Dear OP: I fly JetBlue all the time. I am of the I-swallowed-a-beachball Pooh sized shape. My partner (he is not pooh sized) and I sit next to each other--sometimes w/ the kids, sometimes not--and we NEVER have the arm rests down!
I just think it's a matter of what is fair for whoever. I was in a three seat wide situation several years ago, and was in the middle seat with a pooh sized person on each size (I'm 5'2" petite). Well, I would not have complained (just endured) but they both decided that the arm rests should be up between us. I politely asked that they be put down, because I was only using 1/3 of my seat. They complied, BUT, they each used both their arm rests while I had none, so still only had about 1/2 my seat. I never said another word, but vowed I would not accept such a situation again silently. I paid for a whole seat like they did, but they each had 1 1/2 seats each. because they flowed over the armrest and under it also.
By the way, I don't consider myself a fat-phobic responder, just need my comfort and consideration while flying also.
I'm sorry you had some very rude pooh-sized people flanking you. I'm pooh sized myself. Most around my hips and butt. I've needed an extender once for a belt that had been cut down (which is what they do sometimes when they repair them), but I weigh more than the gal that made headlines last year on Sourthwest. Thusly, I'll never fly them. But I make SURE I do not encroach, I insist the armrests are down and I do NOT use them. I will fold my arms the whole time and lean away from people. I make sure I'm never in a middle seat so I can be sure I can give them ample space, not just space. Not all pooh sized people need that second seat and it's unduly mean to assume they do. Do I see people that have one seat that should have 2? You bet. I wish they could be honest w/ themselves. the last thing in the world I'd ever want would be to make someone feel uncomfortable. I like to fade into the background and not be noticed.
I'm with you 110%! Your arms and legs fall asleep, you cramp up and get shooting pains! But it's better to not bother others I think. People HATE the overweight SO MUCH. The amount of energy, HATE & VITRIOL I don't want to give them more reasons to. Every day on this board too. So sad. Flying fills me with so much anxiety. I'm SO chuffed about our flights down to FL and back on October. I was able to get a plane that has 2 seats on one side and 3 on the other, so I secured 2 rows of the 2 seaters one in front of the other. We won't bother anyone. I WILL pay the extra to not bother anyone. if I overflowed, I would too.Ditto this. I spend most flights where I'm stuck next to a "stranger" in agony from straining to keep my arm and side from encroaching on the person next to me - I'm talking 12-hour flights of hugging my arms across my chest and leaning away from the person so they don't get inconvenienced by my flesh. Casuses major backaches.
I've never needed a seatbelt extender but my best friend, who's larger than I, does and takes her own along with her when she flies, and whenever possible we actually choose to sit next to eachother when flying together because we can just sort of flop all over eachother and know the other person won't be bothered/offended by it.
Mostly I want to be unobtrusive as possible and will cause myself aches and pains rather than make the person next to me uncomfortable (which they always are anyway.)
Flying is the pits.
I'm with you 110%! Your arms and legs fall asleep, you cramp up and get shooting pains! But it's better to not bother others I think. People HATE the overweight SO MUCH. The amount of energy, HATE & VITRIOL I don't want to give them more reasons to. Every day on this board too. So sad. Flying fills me with so much anxiety. I'm SO chuffed about our flights down to FL and back on October. I was able to get a plane that has 2 seats on one side and 3 on the other, so I secured 2 rows of the 2 seaters one in front of the other. We won't bother anyone. I WILL pay the extra to not bother anyone. if I overflowed, I would too.
I'd love to buy my own extender to save the embarrassment of asking just in case, but I never know what airline I'm going on and there are many differences.I just know which airline I won't fly. Narrows it down a little.
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Thanks for the information, this helpsJetBlue has the roomiest standard coach seats in the trade. If you fit into a regular movie theater seat, you'll be fine.
Thanks for the information, this helps
Congratulations on the weight lossWOW!!! OP here and I just saw this was a 7 yr old thread that popped up. Not sure where people find these old posts but oh well.
To update the original post: I was perfectly fine on that flight with Jet Blue. No need to purchase second seat. And I had decent amount of space (I believe we did keep the arm rests up too) I did use an extender though. We are flying again with Jet Blue in November and since losing 80lbs, I'm looking forward to not having to use the extender.![]()