:confused2: I don't understand why you would think anyone would assume the physician's office gets more than the negotiated amount. I think we all KNOW that, on a $100 visit, the physician gets the $35 co-pay (that, after all, being what a co-pay is) from the patient and the remaining $65 from the insurance company.
Sorry, I re-read the post that made me think that she thought the copay was on top of what the doctor already got, now that I looked again, it is more clear.
So it looks like they're at an impasse.
I agree, they have never met and are at an impasse. He has policies and she doesn't agree with them.
So you're saying the OP is guilty until proven innocent - by bringing her copay, and by not bouncing a check, and by not having an insurance company that will refuse to pay any portion of the bill? That's a huge burden/accusation to put on someone with several medical conditions... it's a huge burden on anyone... and SHE hasn't fooled anyone. Honestly, I'm not sure I'd feel comfortable with a doctor who doesn't trust the patients and their insurance companies to behave responsibly based solely on some others' past actions.