Thanks! We ended up going to Madison and then the Dells. Some parts went better than others. My favorite part was the Botanic Gardens, which we did the 1st day. They have a cute little public zoo with an amazing playground, which dd loved. Ds liked it, but the back straps on his mock
crocs broke there, so he quit early - too hot to go barefoot, alas. His favorite part of Madison was our hotel pool, which had a nice play area, plus basketball hoops in the deeper area. He met up with twin boys his age, and they got kinda crazy and had a blast. Their grandma got my email addy to send me some pictures. We also did the Children's Museum, which dd absolutely loved, and then Ella's Deli, which has a ton of animatronic stuff, plus good matzoh ball soup (my kids' fave). We also made a side trip to New Glarus, which was rather a bust, but we got to visit a tiny winery and bought a bottle of white.
Then, in the Dells, we played mini golf, then checked into the Kalahari, where we had gotten a great package deal that included one buffet meal, two full breakfasts, a pizza with drinks, a free pay-per-view movie, plus 100 tokens for the game room. And we used every single one of those freebies! We didn't go off-site until we checked out! Ds loved the waterpark, esp. the Master Blaster (big slide ride) and the Flowrider. Dd loved the 1st day of the park, esp. the family raft ride that the 2 of us rode about a dozen times in a row, but then she got tired of it. At the end, she did a bunch of crafty things.
I have to admit, I kept comparing the Kalahari to WDW, and it kept coming up short in theming and food, and especially the kid activity directors who were really not that friendly - it was like all they felt they needed to do was set stuff up, and forget about any actual interaction with people. We did have a really good breakfast at the sitdown cafe (Ivory Coast), and great coffee there. Oh, our other best meal was dinner at The Great Dane Brewery & Pub near our hotel outside of Madison (Fitchburg). I forget the exact name of what I ordered, but it was very unusual but very good.
Anyhow, it was mostly good - and that's my mini TR!