Do you ever have days where you and your spouse or SO

[dvcfamily41801]

Just don't click???? My DH and I had one of those weekends. Just seemed like everything we said turned into one of us kinda our eyes at the other and walking away and not talking for a little while. I was kinda "weepy" this weekend worrying about money and stuff like that, but sometimes he just seemed to be like "jerkey" or whatever.

Everything is fine now, it just was a long weekend. Was just wondering if this happens a lot and how you handle it? Just give space or always talk it out or what?

Sorry if this seems to personal.

 

[TINKTWINS]

Firm believer that men PMS.........

 

[TINKTWINS]

Oh and Lisa check out my timer, we will be in the World at the same time!!

 

[Dan Murphy]

Naaaaa, Marie and I have wedded bliss for almost 33 years.

 

[WebmasterMaryJo]

Dan, I'm gonna show Marie this post.

 

[Alice28]

DH and I had one of those kind of weeks last week....I finally just kind of kept my distance, as did he, and all was well as of yesterday. I have been not feeling well the last few weeks, and he has been working a TON, so I think the combo of those two things made for both of us being on edge. Just know that this too shall pass and soon you'll be livin it up in WDW!

 

[swea_pea1]

This reminds me of a story I read once in Dear Abby...

A woman was asked on her 50th anniversary whether she had ever considered divorcing her husband. Her response was "Divorce, no.....murder, maybe, but not divorce!"

 

[Lars624]

Originally posted by swea_pea1
This reminds me of a story I read once in Dear Abby...

A woman was asked on her 50th anniversary whether she had ever considered divorcing her husband. Her response was "Divorce, no.....murder, maybe, but not divorce!"

dvcfamily41801~I don't know any couple that doesn't have times like that...........there are days when it doesn't matter what my DH does or says it's not gonna be the right thing. For us it always passes quickly.

 

[Rajah]

Yup, sure do. *Most* of the times, those days don't hit us at the same time -- I'll have one when he can be patient, and vice versa. So we just wait it out most of the time.

 

[Tiggerlover91]

Originally posted by Dan Murphy
Naaaaa, Marie and I have wedded bliss for almost 33 years.

ME TOO!! ME TOO!! Except for only 13 years and with Charles not Marie!!

If you believe that, then come see this WONDERFUL peice of swampland that I'd like to sell ya...really....

 

[robsmom]

We had one of those weekends too. In our case, i have been on edge for months and months with job stress and worrying about my son not getting enough attention. (Can't sleep very well - hence DIS at 3am!!). I have been telling hubby that is all too much - 2 jobs, day care, etc. Well Friday, he had to fire someone and Saturday he went into go go thru the guy's office. I was fine with that, no problem. But when he got home he started going over what days he would work late next week to cover the extra work. Again, I was agreeing, "yes, I will leave on Monday and Wednesday and get DS", etc. But he just wouldn't stop, kept confirming the schedule and finally I lost it!! I was kind of selfish, I admit it, but felt like he hadn't listened to me for the months (more like a year) that I have been saying that we are too busy and had not guilt at throwing more stuff my way!
Yesterday (Monday ) he apologize for being "insensitive", I rushed out from work to get DS so he could do what he needed to do and all is fine in the world again!

Sorry so long.

 

[MDonley]

[QUOTEIf you believe that, then come see this WONDERFUL peice of swampland that I'd like to sell ya...really....[/QUOTE]

Didn't Walt Disney once buy some "swampland" down in Florida somewhere? LOL!

 

[Kimickey]

It was a full moon this past weekend. DH and I had one of those days on Saturday. It all started with our DS(2 months) having a meltdown at the drive thru of Chick-fil-A. then the domino affect happend. Needless to say we all went to bed that night and slept very well!

 

[Mermaid02]

Of course! This morning is a good example.... he's irritating me (as I'm sure I am him). Hey, we've been together for...17 years... who wouldn't be sick of each other or irritated by each other occasionally over that much time (and we're a young couple compared to many!!)

This too shall pass!

 

[JESW]

Yes. Those times remind me of a Harry Chapin song and I know we will get through them and back on track

I found you a thousand times
I guess you've done the same
Then we lose each other just like a children's game
Now I found you back again a thought runs through my mind
Our love is like a circle - let's go round one more time

Circle - Harry Chapin

(the lyrics may not be exact...it's early in the morning...)


Jill

 

[WDWLVR]

I think its perfectly normal. It seems like sometimes the days I have the most stress at work and have been in non-stop meetings etc. are the days when DH was alone a lot and wants to talk! Or I'll be in the mood to talk but since I'm a morning person and he isn't I start talking as soon as he wakes up and he's not ready for it.

Those type of things usually work themselves out and all is well again. A good strong marriage can take the bumps in the road like this.

I'm a firm believer that if anyone tells you they don't have those kind of days or moments they are just kidding themselves.

 

[The Mystery Machine]

Yep! Lets see he has had job stress (ok forever) and this is my b-day month (turning 39) not too thrilled with that. Plus dumping everything on me.

Normally I am pretty "good" but this weekend nope, couldn't take the "mood" of his.

We "discusssed importantly" the issues out this time. So I guess it depends on the issues. Sometimes it needs to be discussed and sometimes if it is temporary it will pass.

 

[Dan Murphy]

Reminds me of some days here on the CB, LOL, remember, we are Family here too. In the end, we are friends.

 

[katerkat]

Totally normal. DH and I have those days - sometimes just hime, sometimes just me, sometimes both of us at the same time. We just let the other person be until s/he feels better again!

 

[KristiKelly]

We have had one of those weekends too, but for the past 2 weekends; however with me it's not just DH, it's the kids as well. I think it's a combination of realizing how much I spent over Christmas (and how ungrateful our kids are for that), tax time, the weather and (this is not for the men) I think I have pre, during and post (P)MS - Just call me Sybill