Do you cook the same style meals you grew up eating?

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My wife and I were talking today during dinner about how we don't cook the same types of food that either of us grew up eating.

We cook a lot of fish and shrimp dishes, something that neither of us grew up eating. Even the chicken and beef we cook is prepared totally different then either of our childhoods.

Neither of us remember disliking our meals as kids, it seems a little odd that we prepare dishes that are so different from our childhood.
 
No. My mom was a terrible cook. Really quite awful. I mean, the shake-and-bake pork and chicken were usually ok, but her spaghetti and meat sauce was atrocious. Same with her steaks.

We have much more variety, cook more from scratch, and use more fresh vegetables.
 
No. My mom was a terrible cook. Really quite awful. I mean, the shake-and-bake pork and chicken were usually ok, but her spaghetti and meat sauce was atrocious. Same with her steaks.

We have much more variety, cook more from scratch, and use more fresh vegetables.

Sounds like my experience growing up. My mom even complained how she could never think of enough ideas for meals.

I've gained culinary skills in my adulthood, so I'm often the one cooking for other people. :sunny:
 

My wife and I were talking today during dinner about how we don't cook the same types of food that either of us grew up eating.

We cook a lot of fish and shrimp dishes, something that neither of us grew up eating. Even the chicken and beef we cook is prepared totally different then either of our childhoods.

Neither of us remember disliking our meals as kids, it seems a little odd that we prepare dishes that are so different from our childhood.

Different. Mom fried much more than I do. I've never fried chicken. Chicken, rice and gravy and a can of peas.

I make a lot more salads, roasted vegetables. Sauteed or baked meats in no oil. Limited starches. Don't make spaghetti very often. Use less cans and boxes than she did.

Never have I cooked turnip greens from scratch. Or fried squirrel or rabbit or beef liver- mom did on occasion.
 
Yes and no. My Dmom was an excellent cook and had the finest of basic ingredients available; organic and farm-to-table before it was a thing. What she didn't have was any exposure to different ethnic cuisines or exotic ingredients. I've taken her rock-solid techniques and great ability to nurture through food and expanded it, just as my world in general is way, way bigger than hers ever was.
 
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Completely different. I’m vegan and cook mostly from scratch. I eat a huge variety of foods and ethnic cuisines. My moms idea of ethic was lasagna or Chinese take out. We ate a lot of bland dishes and often repetitive because my doesn’t like many spices and she suffered from medical conditions where she couldn’t eat things like onion, garlic , peppers ect so even the lasagna was very mild and under seasoned.
 
some different, some the same.
She fried a lot of things in fat or bacon grease. I don't fry much at all
She made killer spaghetti sauce and enchiladas. I do those too.
Her lemon meringue pie was the best!! I can't match it
 
We eat much differently than how I grew up. I think the only fresh vegetables we ate were corn and tomatoes during the summer. As someone else posted, lots of cans and boxes.
However, my mother was a fabulous baker-cakes made from scratch, cream puffs, pies.
My mother in law was a very good cook-my husband is a very adventurous eater and I think it’s because he grew up eating so many different things.
 
no. more use of the bbq (it was almost never done growing up other than hot dogs and burgers), and one HUGE difference-frequent use of LAMB. i never tried it till after my father passed away when i was 19. apparently my mom loved it but never cooked it b/c my dad couldn't tolerate so much as the smell (forced to eat mutton during ww2). we love it.
 
Some things yes, most no. I cook a much wider variety of foods than my mom did, and I don't keep quite as tight a handle on the grocery budget. But I also don't cook many meals as time-consuming as those my grandmother - who was basically my SAH parent until her health started to fade - made either.

My mom was a very 1970s-American cook - meatloaf Monday, taco Tuesday, shake-n-bake and canned corn, casseroles prepped on weekends to heat during the week, etc. Not bad food and not terribly unhealthy, other than perhaps the sodium content, but not very creative or varied either. Ethnic food, in my household, was tacos or lasagna. That was made much worse by the fact that my brother was VERY picky when we were growing up, so changing up routines was a whole can of worms that I totally understand (now, as an adult/mom... not so much back then) her not having the energy to open after working all day.

My cooking style is more improvisational. I use a lot less canned stuff but a lot more fresh or frozen veggies. There are a couple of more involved recipes that I have in the regular rotation - shepherd's pie, cordon bleu casserole, paella - but for everyday cooking I do a lot of grilled or slow-cooker mains with frozen veggie sides, and there are only a couple of the things I grew up eating that ever make it onto the menu. The kids do love shake-n-bake pork chops so I do that from time to time, and we do taco night once or twice a month, usually when we have extra kids staying the night. I also serve a lot of things that my mother would think of as side dishes as mains, especially if they contain some meat - for example, in my book well-prepared collard greens with cornbread is a meal in itself, and a bit of grilled chicken is enough to make a salad into an entree.
 
No. Growing up we usually had a meat and a starch and vegetable side, I can't remember the last time I cooked like that. I make a lot of ethnic foods and one pot type meals.
 
We eat very differently than DH's family did, but fairly similar to how I ate home. Fresh veggies, grilled or roasted fish and poultry, stir fries, salads, etc. were pretty common at my home in the 60s and 70s. We do comfort foods like pastas etc. but always served with fresh or frozen vegetables. My mom liked to do meatless nights and some of her concoctions were pretty gross. That's one thing I haven't duplicated - I never served my kids carrot loaf! (though I did make turkey meatloaf with carrots and spinach in it that I supposed could be somewhat comparable. Fortunately, my kids liked it!)

DH grew up with a lot of fried food and canned veggies with butter added. Meat and potatoes was the standard and never anything "foreign."
 
American fried (in Crisco no less) potatoes 4-5 nights a week....I am pretty sure I would be dead if I ate like that.

Although occasionally I do miss a big glass of Cherry Kool Aid with fried potatoes and Kielbasa.

My parents do not eat like this anymore either lol
 
No, though I wish I had some of my mom’s recipes. I have a few of them- like her Rouladen. It takes a long time to prepare, so I make it maybe once a year. I’ve also replaced the LARD she used with coconut oil. Her meals were tasty, but very heavy and rich. Like others, we tend to try a greater variety of recipes and often keep it to one pot.
 
No - quite differently.

Mom made the same 6-8 meals every week, and they were mostly processed/semi-processed meals. I honestly think because money was so tight + she just hated cooking (still does). Things like blue box mac and cheese with peas mixed in and slices of spam baked on top. Meatloaf with boxed scalloped potatoes. Baked chicken with canned corn. She told me recently the only spice in her cabinet was garlic powder. And we always had white sandwich bread and a tub of margarine on the table for every meal.

We rarely repeat meals, eat a lot of ethnic food, with very few processed items. But I love to cook and count calories so it's hard to compare.

She fed a family of 5 on a super tight budget and we all turned out fine :)
 
Well I make WAY LESS meatloaf! And if I want pork chops, I order tonkatsu from the Japanese eatery!
 

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