Do you believe pets grieve?

My granthmother had 2 dogs.They were so great with eachtother- very brotherly. My grandmother had to put the younger one down when it got very, very ill. The older one started acting alot differenlty and only about a month later (even though she got a new dog- who actually looked similar) he died as well. :sad1:
 
I firmly believe pets grieve. The 2 Labs in the below pic, Katie and Molly, were as close as sisters; Molly had her own pillow to sleep on, but she seemed to sense when Katie's time was drawing near and started sleeping right next to her, sometimes half on top of her. After Katie passed away in June, Molly wasn't the same, moping around, not eating much, not really interested in anything. Even now, she has little phases where she'll get kind of mopey for seemingly no reason. Thankfully, my parents' other dog, a Shih Tzu, doesn't let her stay down for too long.

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Absolutely agree. When we lost the Old Cat, another cat that he brought to us seemed really depressed. She would sit at the window in our living room and look out toward the area where we buried him and cry. It was really heart breaking. I think that when I lose my next cat I will let the other cats see its body. The cat that would cry, well it almost seemed like she was crying for him to come home because she didn't know where he went. :sad1:
 
Oh, and 3 summers ago, I broke up with my live-in boyfriend and threw him out, and my cat Rowan wandered around the house for days looking for him. He'd even go sit by the door, waiting for him to come home. I tried telling Rowan that John was a lying, cheating, piece of $%^#$, but I think Rowan missed him anyway. ;)
 

Absolutely agree. When we lost the Old Cat, another cat that he brought to us seemed really depressed. She would sit at the window in our living room and look out toward the area where we buried him and cry. It was really heart breaking. I think that when I lose my next cat I will let the other cats see its body. The cat that would cry, well it almost seemed like she was crying for him to come home because she didn't know where he went. :sad1:

That's what our vet has always recommended we do...with the dogs and the cats, we try to make sure they get a chance to see and sniff the pet who's just died, to try to kind of let them realize what's happened for themselves. Or rather, my parents have always done that. I've never been able to watch.
 
I am going through this right now. I have a blue crowned conure, who is having a hard time with the passing of dh. The two of them were pals. My dh worked from home so they were all ways together.

Everytime I walk in the door, he looks past me to see if my dh is coming in behind me. It breaks my heart every single time. I have taken him through the house several time so that he knows his dad isn't here. He doesn't eat as much as he use to, although it's getting better.

Animals do grieve for their friends, whether animal or human.
 
My very loving cat ignores me when I come home after a vacation, as if to let me know he is mad I left.
The cat we had growing up used to do the same thing! It was honestly kind of funny - when my dad was watching TV the night we'd get home, the cat would go sit and front of him but face away from him. Kind of like "I am so not talking to you right now!"
 
My whippet, Milan was horribly sad when my cat died. Milan and Ricco had been together for 13 years. She spent weeks looking for her, she wouldn't eat, she paced back and forth whining. The only time she didn't grieve was when I was crying - then she'd focus on making me feel better, crawling into my lap to give me kisses. It took us both a long time.
 
These stories are so sad :sad1:

I do believe that pets grieve. I think they feel many emotions. My very loving cat ignores me when I come home after a vacation, as if to let me know he is mad I left.

My grandparents had a pair of grate danes. One male, and one female. I don't know exactly how old they were but when they reached old age the female passed away. The male was soon to follow. I truly think he died of a broken heart.

My DD's cat does that. He'll "make her suffer" for about a half hour before he welcomes her home. He's also started vomiting if she's gone for a week or so.

We had some friends who had the exact same thing happen. Their Great Danes were littermates (male and female). I don't remember which one died first, but it was only 2 or 3 months until they found the other one dead in the backyard where the sibling liked to lay when they were outside. She also said she was convinced the dog died of a broken heart.
 
Bobby was described as a Skye Terrier dog that became famous in 19th-century Edinburgh, Scotland. Bobby belonged to John Gray, who worked for the Edinburgh Police Department (EPD) as a night watchman, and the two were inseparable for approximately two years.[1] Then, on 15 February 1858, Gray died of tuberculosis. He was buried in Greyfriars Kirkyard, the graveyard surrounding Greyfriars Kirk in the Old Town of Edinburgh. Bobby, who survived with John for 14 years, is said to have spent the rest of his life sitting on his master's grave. A more realistic account has it that he spent a great deal of time at Gray's grave, but that he left regularly for meals at a restaurant beside the graveyard, and may have spent colder winters in nearby houses.

In 1867, when it was pointed out that an unowned dog should be destroyed, the Lord Provost of Edinburgh, Sir William Chambers (who was also a director of the Scottish Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals), paid for a renewal of Bobby's licence, making him the responsibility of the city council.

Bobby died in 1872 and could not be buried within the cemetery itself, since it was consecrated ground, instead he was buried just inside the gate of Greyfriars Kirkyard, not far from John Gray's grave. His headstone states, "Greyfriars Bobby - died 14th January 1872 - aged 16 years - Let his loyalty and devotion be a lesson to us all".


One of the best known Human/Pet grief stories.

If only humans had half the loyalty of our pets.
 
If only humans had half the loyalty of our pets.

Isn't that the truth.

These posts are gut wrenching! :sad1:

My oldest son's friend's dog was hit by a car a few weeks after our Shiloh died. They also had another dog. When they wrapped up Copper in preparation for his backyard burial, she whined and pawed at Copper's lifeless body.
 
I absolutely believe they do. My friend has had to put down 2 dogs in the time I have owned Teddy, and each time he has grieved for his friends.
 
When we had to put my older cat Pepper to sleep earlier this year, my younger one looked for him for 3 days. She would prowl the house looking for her snuggle buddy. Now I'm her snuggle buddy.

~Amanda
 
absolutely!!! There has been too much documented - and everyone's personal experience shows it is so. We recently had this discussion because DD's teacher (who I otherwise LOVE!!!) told the class animals do not have feelings.:sad2: I also have read an article on how it actually helps them to understand and get past it easier if you let them see the body of a deceased friend - if one dog dies at the vet - you should let the other dog see that his friend has passed. I guess they are able to understand on some level and it is better than having them waiting and waiting in vain for the friend to show up. I found that really interesting.(edited to add: this was already discussed - sorry!)

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wow - some of those stories brought tears to my eyes!!! - except the "lying, cheating, piece of $%^#$ boyfriend" story - talk about comic relief!!!! TU!!!:)
 
I know they do. I have watched two cats grieve in my adult life time. It is so very sad to watch. We just lost a cat a month ago and our little Gwenie is finally coming around. We did bring in another cat which has helped her a lot, but for a few days, she and I just laid in bed together. She kept looking for Cleo. I think sometimes she still does :sad1:
 
That is such a sad story!! I know pets grieve.

We adopted an adult female shepherd mix and a pitbull puppy mix from the pound at the same time 14 years ago. When we had to have the shepherd put down a few years ago, our pitbull's personality totally changed. He went from a happy-go-lucky, afraid-of-nothing, puppy-forever kind of guy to a whiny, clingy, 'fraidy-cat kind of guy.

He became a complete house dog--never wanted to be outside by himself, always wanted to be around his people. I felt SO sorry for him. Both my dogs have gone over the Rainbow Bridge now (we had our pitbull mix put down a few months ago after several months of surgery, osteomyelitis, GI bleeding, etc.) and I know they're playing happily together forever.
 
I'm quite sure they do! I have no personal experiance with it, but I've heard enough stories to believe it. That and I believe scientists have documented mourning type behavior in wild elephants (and maybe other animals as well).

Animals may not have complex emotions like humans, but they do have emotions!
 
Oh, without a doubt pets grieve! My Crookshanks is the most active, hyper, outgoing cat I have ever known. One day, our other cat, Oreo, had to go to the vet for minor surgery and was gone from Friday until Monday. Crookshanks was heartbroken; moped around and just looked so depressed that it broke my heart. Poor thing. The funny thing is, Oreo is much older and doesn't really play all that much, but Crookshanks still very clearly missed him something aweful. When Oreo came home, Crookshanks reverted right back to his old self. I was very impressed as I had no idea that cats could feel that bonded with one another.
 
Animals definitely grieve. I've had to put down a few pets (some from old age, some from cancer), and each time my other pets walked around the house "lost" for days.

My childhood dog, Snoopy, had a best friend, this feral kitten my parents took in. Snoopy loved that cat and carried it around like it was her own. That poor cat died young and Snoopy weeped. My mom had to get another cat for Snoopy. So she adopted a cat, Kitty, and Snoopy and Kitty were best friends. When Snoopy passed years later, Kitty was lost without her. We had adopted another dog, Molly, but Kitty was never the same.

Molly died a few years ago from cancer. We had two cats at the time (sadly Kitty was no longer with us) and those two cats looked for Molly for days. A month later we adopted our current dog, Ally. Ally and my oldest cat Cleo are best friends. Cleo is 16, but doing well. I never want to see the day when she passes. Ally will be devestated.

My pets even "grieve" when one of them has to go to the vet and spend the night. They walk around the house looking for the other. My middle cat Snow is my moms cat. He follows her around all day long. When my mom goes away for a weekend or on vacation, Snow is lost. He mopes around and follows me around instead. It's sad to see him like that. He wants to know where she is and no matter how many times I tell him she'll be home soon, he doesn't undetrstand.
 

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