Do we need to get them something?

[Not so Dumbo]

We have a couple that we were neighbors with and since we have both moved out of the neighborhood. Our kids were really good friends when we lived there and we would also hang out together, mostly in the summer when the guys would kick back a couple of beers
We still see them maybe once or twice a year and just recently they adopted 4yo twins. They are having an adoption party this weekend and I'm not sure if we are expected to bring a gift. What do you think?

 

[littleteapot]

We had friends who adopted a 3yog. Everyone brought gifts to the adoption party.

 

[StitchandPooh'sMom]

I don't ever go to a party without a gift regardless of the occasion - I think it's a Southern thing! I would bring a small gift for the twins (books, summer fun stuff like bubbles, chalk, hula hoops, slip-n-slide, etc.) or a gift the family could share. Target has some great outdoor games in the toy section and also the sporting goods section - bocce, croquet, egg and spoon race, etc. They start under $10.

 

[dahrjo]

I think it would be really nice to get them a gift.

 

[lillygator]

I would bring something.

 

[FSUDisneyGirl]

I would bring something, too. If money is an issue, maybe sand pails filled with summer things. It should be a fun party!

 

[ilvdznee]

I would bring something, probably matching twin outfits

 

[AKBAFB]

Yes, I agree with the other posters, you should bring a gift if you go to the party. You wouldn't go to a baby shower or to visit a new baby without a gift, so I think you should welcome the new family members with a gift just as you would a new baby.

 

[DVC Sadie]

Yes, a gift would be appropriate and probably very appreciated.

 

[ILoveDisney&Cruising]

I would bring a gift.

 

[Luv Bunnies]

An adoption party is meant to welcome the kids to the family and the neighborhood but should also be treated as a shower. The family could probably use all the necessities like clothing and maybe some toys or books. I'm sure they would appreciate it and so would the kids!

 

[Blessed99]

I Have been to a party before where the host/new adoptive parents requested for no gifts to be brought. We wanted to take something to the children though, but in the end decided it would be best to respect their wishes. I say to follow your heart, but if no specific comment to not bring gifts, I would personally take one, maybe something small for each child.

Kelly

 

[timzagain]

I agree with the other posters - I'd take a gift!

Toys and clothes are good ideas, if you know sizes, interests and skill levels of the kids. My cousin who lives overseas, recently adopted a boy of seven, and brought him home to meet the family. She didn't disclose beforehand that he is significantly developmentally delayed - had we bought toys that were "just perfect for a seven year old boy, " we would have missed the mark totally!

I'm also guessing that the twins will be overwhelmed with toy gifts.

Other ideas:-

1. Gift Certificates for toys/ books/ clothing stores so that the parents can select exactly what they need
2. Coin banks, with some money in them (amount determined by your budget). Depending on how "crafty" you are, you could personalize them with acrylic paints.

 

[DevilDuckie]

We have a couple that we were neighbors with and since we have both moved out of the neighborhood. Our kids were really good friends when we lived there and we would also hang out together, mostly in the summer when the guys would kick back a couple of beers
We still see them maybe once or twice a year and just recently they adopted 4yo twins. They are having an adoption party this weekend and I'm not sure if we are expected to bring a gift. What do you think?

Would you bring a gift if they'd just had babies? That's my standard. If it is a situation in which a birth would prompt a gift, adoption does too.

 

[GoofyFairie]

I too would bring a gift. Something along the lines of a book for each child, a savings bond, or clothing. A family photo album with a nice note inside might be a nice touch.

 

[EthansMom]

A gift is definitely in order if you plan on attending the party. I'd go for clothes or books. They'll probably be getting lots of toys.

 

[kmodory]

I say bring a gift.