ronandannette
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“In loco parentis” is the term I was trying to remember and sure enough, it’s mentioned in the article. I’m sure this principle will prevail in the lawsuit.
North Carolina, huh? That's all I needed to know.
I am not quite sure how you wanted that to read?
Did you really mean it to read as a broad judgment of North Carolina?
Sadly, I think this type of situation could happen in many states and I wouldn't paint NC with such a broad judgmental brush. I don't think that's fair.
Of course this case is ludicrous. Safety is paramount at a school. The school district is throwing everything including the kitchen sink too not have to pay for their horrendous and cavalier attitude over this serious issue. Will it work? No. Does it make them look even worse? HELL YES!
I know plenty about how the state of NC runs their public school system. Lots of extended family and friends have been in it, in different parts of the state, as both students and educators. I know enough to have moved heaven and earth so that my kids with special needs wouldn't ever have to be subject to them, because we were almost sent there on military orders. My husband's literally put himself in a position to go back to Afghanistan a second time and extend his tenure elsewhere rather than PCS to eastern, coastal NC.
Stories like this do nothing to change my opinion.
I've been a school staff member for almost 20 years. Our very first responsibility, above and beyond even providing the kids with an education, is to keep them safe. Without their fundamental safety, no amount of educating can even take place. Parents leave their kids in our care for up to seven (or more) hours each day. We are obligated to keep those kids physically, emotionally and psychologically safe. That's not to say the kids won't be involved tough situations or challenges. Schools need to provide boundaries, rules, discipline and consequences for certain choices and behaviors. That said, none of those things should involve any type of abuse, disrespect or put the child in an unsafe position.
I have to complete mandated reporter training every year. I have no doubts, confusion or questions about my responsibility to report suspected abuse of any type. If I have reason to suspect that any form of abuse or neglect has occurred, I am obligated to personally report it. I can't just tell my supervisor. I can't just tell my principal. I have to make the phone call to Child Protective Services or the Police. I can discuss it with my administrator first and he or she can be present during the call for support (if I would like them there). However, just passing the information to someone else and expecting or trusting them to make the call is a violation of the mandated reporter law.
As a parent, I would 100% call the police myself if I thought my child was being abused at school. It's not simply an HR issue. It's a crime with my child as the victim. Even if my child asked me not to, I would still make the call. It's my responsibility to ensure that my minor child is taken care of, and to ensure that the abuser does not victimize other kids in the future. I would assure my child that he or she will be OK. We can get counseling to deal with what happened. We can transfer to a new school. We can move to a new town if necessary. The abuse will stop, the abuser will face consequences and my child will get whatever he or she needs to start to heal.
Reading the first post and pulling my kid out of public school as soon as possible…
I'm a teacher. Yes, all school employees are mandated child abuse reporters. The district is negligent for failing to respond to complaints. Absolutely, they are at fault.At court hearing, school district argues it shouldn't be held liable for teacher's abuse
This is a story happening close to me. My children never encountered this teacher.
In case the link doesn't work, or people don't want to click on it, the story is that a teacher abused and molested students, over a period of decades, at 2 different high schools. He was reported many times, the school district did nothing--except transfer him to a different school, where the abuse continues. The former teacher pled guilty to 58 counts and is in prison. His victims are suing the district for allowing a predator to continue to teach. The defense claims that schools do not have a duty to keep students safe.
I'm curious to know what people think. Do schools have an obligation to keep kids safe? I thought there were mandatory reporting laws. Don't schools take on the role of protecting students when they have fire drills and mask mandates? Personally, I think the district should have quietly settled--they aren't helping themselves in the court of public opinion, for sure, with this argument.
Note: the civil trial is ongoing. There was another pedophile case at a local middle school, that hasn't been adjudicated yet (either civilly or criminally). In that case, it was found that the school covered up the abuse for 20 years. Every single member of the school board was voted out at the last election, due to the cover-up in that case.
I'm a public school teacher (have had my son in both public & private schools, so I'm not biased either way). I'll state that it's shocking for any school to not swiftly respond to abuse allegations, and certainly isn't the norm. As a teacher I have had to report child abuse myself, although the abuser was the parent (which is typical), not a staff member. I wouldn't hesitate to report an abusive colleague, though, and neither would any other education professional I know. We love kids and will protect them from abuse to the best of our ability. Same goes for the private schools my son has been at, I'm sure.Reading the first post and pulling my kid out of public school as soon as possible…
I didn’t say that. I have loads of reasons, but throw this on top of the others and it makes me lean heavily towards private schools or homeschooling.I'm a public school teacher (have had my son in both public & private schools, so I'm not biased either way). I'll state that it's shocking for any school to not swiftly respond to abuse allegations, and certainly isn't the norm. As a teacher I have had to report child abuse myself, although the abuser was the parent (which is typical), not a staff member. I wouldn't hesitate to report an abusive colleague, though, and neither would any other education professional I know. We love kids and will protect them from abuse to the best of our ability. Same goes for the private schools my son has been at, I'm sure.
The Catholic church ignored & covered up child abuse in private Catholic schools for decades in the past. I hope that doesn't drive people to never attend private schools or churches again, though. Saying you'll pull your child from your own public school due to one awful public school somewhere else seems an overreaction.
I’m wondering why the parents did not go directly to the police.