Thanks.

I wish she'd been able to get to know what a wonderful person DS is, but because we couldn't afford to travel there she only met him through videotapes. We could just *barely* afford to fly out for the funeral but I told DH I'd hitchhike if I had to, if only so I could be there. My grandmother actually told me, multiple times, over the phone that I was not under any circumstances to go to her funeral. She knew how tight finances are for us and she would've been really steamed to know we flew out. But there was no question of me NOT going..because I loved her and I wanted to show my respect by attending.
It was an especially hard funeral, not only because Grandma had died, but because her service was held in the SAME chapel my uncle's service had been held in six years prior. She was buried a few feet away from him, also, in between her husband (who I never knew because he died when I was an infant) and the baby she'd lost in infancy that she thought up until Alzheimer's took her memory that she'd killed accidentally (it turned out to be SIDS).
Going to that funeral is something that will always stick in my mind, especially right before we took her to the gravesite. My mother, my aunt and I were all standing together, leaning on each other and just crying our eyes out.
Sorry...rambling. Scuse me...
Ladyjean