Please don't put your baby to bed with a bottle. My DH is a pediatric dentist, and treats tons of kids with nursing bottle caries...while there may be anecdotes of "my kid did it and he turned out fine", trust me when I say there are millions of kids that go to the operating room to have all their rotten teeth cared for. The sugars in the milk literally bathe the teeth while they sleep. Would you want to go to bed like that?
Someone told me that years before we had kids and I always remembered that, so no, they didn't have bottles in bed with them
Both my girls liked the binky. We would put them in crib half asleep sometimes with the binky but then we would take it out of their months when they were sound asleep.