I think this all sounds confusing when it really isn't!!
Here's the deal:
Tickets:
You can buy pkg deal thru Disney Travel and get free kids ticket - or- contact
dreams unlimited to get kids free ticket without a pkg - OR- I have heard
Disney Store also carries a deal... OR
AAA has discounts OR Disney Club has discounts...
As for Disneyland Hotel - you CAN book reservations at Annual Pass rates (call them directly) without having an AP yet ask for Super Sunday rates or any other best rates available , **********you will need the AP at check in***.
Deluxe AP is $159, if you are buying 4 day passes anyway this is only a difference of $18... with the amount of discounts on restaurants, souveniers, Super Sunday Disneyland Hotels rates ($99 Sun- Thurs, $129 weekends, $129 if stay starts on weekend ** unless you get a nice CM that helps you with this), etc... this may be worth it to you.....If you plan on returning next year come back a little earlier and use the same pass! Exple: we got APs in May , next yr we plan to go in March using the same pass
Deluxe has some block out days (Saturdays in summer, a few days around the major holidays) and does NOT offer parking pass. The Premium pass is no block out days and has parking pass included - it is also more expensive at $219, you can get $20 off w Disney Club card ... I know a lot of people say go withthe premium as you get more discounts but I did not feel it was worth the extra cost for someone who only visits twice a year and will not need parking.
** Kids are charged full price for AP * they do not have a lower cost AP for children ....
Something to consider - On my recent trip we booked part of our stay thru Disney Travel to get the pkg deal w the free kid passes as well as upgrading at low cost for Character breakfast and getting the pins/lanyards, Espn Zone point passes (arcade games) - staying at a good neighbor hotel - FairfieldInn- then switched hotels to Disneyland Hotel for the last half of our time w AP rates.....
I know this might not work for everyone but it added to our adventures this yr in a very affordable way.