Saying she dislikes Disney is a huge understatement. She dislikes.. HATES whimsy and adults acting like children, so she hates 'friends of characters' because they are adults acting silly. She does not like rides, she does not want her children to like rides or Disney. I think she was born fully formed as an adult. She does not like lines. She does not like spending money frivolously. She thinks my husband and I are a bad influence because we are without children, in our 40s, who are responsible with careers, financially secure, who like Disney. We go to animated movies. We know the frozen song. (I know I should just let it go, but I can't lol) Something must be wrong with us. LOL! Apparently adults should not have room in their heads/hearts for such things.
If we could go without her, we would, my dad suggested it and she became offended. I think she wants to be there to make sure no one has fun.
OMG! I know what she is!!!! She is a Disney Villain!!! And yes she will play the martyr. Since we have a tour guide, my plan is if she starts acting out tell the tour guide to ignore my sister in law. She is already telling the kids that the rides will make them sick and is putting very negative messages in their heads about the trip. Of course they know how their mom is, and are ignoring it! Rofl! I am really hoping she just goes off on her own. We are not making her stay with us.
My husband and I are very good travelers. We are good planners. We've had various relatives travel with us and marvel at what we can accomplish and the awesome things we do. We find good deals, we plan ahead of time, and we pace ourselves to have relaxation, fun and a chance to let off steam. I am hoping that by staying at the beach club, a place right in the middle of it all, with awesome pools and a walking entrance to alcohol and 'grown up' things in Epcot, she will go and find something 'appropriately enjoyable' for her. I'm not going to force her to do anything.
(oh. this is totally weird...my SIL asked to schedule an appointment for BBB for the 9 year old. She wants to peel off from the tour with her and get dolled up. OMG.. who is she and what has she done with my SIL...and can she stay...)