Seems to me there’s a chance your boys will have the same feeling about WL, IMO.
Unless you just want to pull rank and go WL because that’s what YOU want (which I’ve done with my family many times, so no judgement here!), I’d vote for YC CL (and getting hoppers

). The variety of things to do for your crew (either split up or together) both in the parks and the Epcot resorts seems too compelling to me.
I do love WL and WL CL though. It’s just a different vibe. Although maybe your crew would all be fine with just chilling at a low-key resort like WL before your big cruise?
Lol, guess I’m no help.