MyWndrlnd
Earning My Ears
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- Dec 9, 2010
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Hi everyone, I am a long time Disboards lurker, first time poster. 
I am sure this has been asked a million times but I am getting a little anxious over this so I am hoping someone will answer it a million and one times
Question:
How bad are the crowds on NYE or the day before? Are they too much of a deterrent to take a reluctant Disneyland first timer?
A little background info:
My best friend and I are Disneyland vets. We go every year for at least 3 days- opening and closing the park each day- and never have any issue navigating crowds and fast passes in order to maximize our ride time at the park. Our trip is generally in July, when crowds are by no means small but they aren't overwhelming either. This year we decided to go during the holidays so that we can see Disneyland in all its winter splendor, I haven't been during the holiday season since I was a kid and she has never been so this is very exciting for us. We decided to tie this into going down to see my family for the holidays during the last week of December and my birthday, which happens to be on Dec 31st.
My boyfriend of almost 2 years has agreed to come down with us to celebrate the holidays with my family and to spend my birthday with me!!!
This is kind of a big deal since it requires him to fork up a few hundred $ for a plane ticket and travel expenses and I am very excited to have him come to these events with me. He even said he would go to Disneyland with us- one day only- if I really wanted him to. The issue I am facing is exposing him to Disneyland for the first time in a way that will allow him to have a good time and want to go back.
He is not a Disneyland fanatic. At all. He has no desire to go and is only willing to go because it makes me happy. He also hates crowds and gets frustrated when he has to deal with them for extended periods of time. Can you see where this is going...?
Because of family holiday schedules as well as his inability to stay as long as my friend and I are (he has to get back home by the 1st and we are staying through the 3rd), our only possible Disneyland days are 12/30, 12/31, 1/1, 1/2. My friend and I want to at least do 3-days since it will be 1.5 years since we last went so at least one of the days will be when he is with us. Are 12/30 and/or 12/31 too crowded to make a successful trip with this Disneyland first timer or will we still be able to reasonably navigate the crowds and fast pass system to give him a good experience? As I mentioned before, we are pretty good at doing this normally but I am wondering if the parks will be prohibitively crowded.
Thank you!

I am sure this has been asked a million times but I am getting a little anxious over this so I am hoping someone will answer it a million and one times

Question:
How bad are the crowds on NYE or the day before? Are they too much of a deterrent to take a reluctant Disneyland first timer?

A little background info:
My best friend and I are Disneyland vets. We go every year for at least 3 days- opening and closing the park each day- and never have any issue navigating crowds and fast passes in order to maximize our ride time at the park. Our trip is generally in July, when crowds are by no means small but they aren't overwhelming either. This year we decided to go during the holidays so that we can see Disneyland in all its winter splendor, I haven't been during the holiday season since I was a kid and she has never been so this is very exciting for us. We decided to tie this into going down to see my family for the holidays during the last week of December and my birthday, which happens to be on Dec 31st.
My boyfriend of almost 2 years has agreed to come down with us to celebrate the holidays with my family and to spend my birthday with me!!!

He is not a Disneyland fanatic. At all. He has no desire to go and is only willing to go because it makes me happy. He also hates crowds and gets frustrated when he has to deal with them for extended periods of time. Can you see where this is going...?
Because of family holiday schedules as well as his inability to stay as long as my friend and I are (he has to get back home by the 1st and we are staying through the 3rd), our only possible Disneyland days are 12/30, 12/31, 1/1, 1/2. My friend and I want to at least do 3-days since it will be 1.5 years since we last went so at least one of the days will be when he is with us. Are 12/30 and/or 12/31 too crowded to make a successful trip with this Disneyland first timer or will we still be able to reasonably navigate the crowds and fast pass system to give him a good experience? As I mentioned before, we are pretty good at doing this normally but I am wondering if the parks will be prohibitively crowded.
Thank you!