do they offer any dessert party for the fireworks this is what I have to do at Disney world
Please post this thread in the
Disneyland (California) forum, too, because I think you can get more help there from people who are familiar with DLR and the help that is available to you at that resort. DLR is very different from WDW when it comes to fireworks.
Actually, DL doesn't currently offer dessert parties for fireworks viewing. There is the Tomorrowland Skyline Lounge Experience (
https://disneyland.disney.go.com/dining/disneyland/tomorrowland-skyline-lounge/) which gives you a
poor view of any fireworks (and MMM, the current show, does not have fireworks every night) and no view of the projections since you can't see the castle or Main Street from the Skyline Lounge. And if the fireworks are cancelled, there is no refund.
A better option for your family would be to do a Fantasmic! dining package for the first show on a weekend night (Fri., Sat., Sun. -- make sure to confirm on the entertainment schedule that the MMM show on your F! viewing night says "Mickey's Mix Magic
with Fireworks") -- either Hungry Bear (the most economical choice with the most flexible menu since you can choose items from the dining package or regular menu -- same dining package price), River Belle Terrace (moderate choice), or Blue Bayou (most expensive choice). After F!, you will be invited to stay in your reserved viewing area to watch MMM on the Rivers of America. The projections will be shown on the water screens and you will be able to see the fireworks since they launch from behind Toon Town. The viewing areas are not packed like Main Street. A F! dining package for the first show would allow you to see two shows for one price, from one reserved viewing area.
Also, many families do the "buffer trick" -- have the other members of your family make a buffer zone/circle (with some elbow room) around your daughter so that she isn't packed in by strangers. That should help her in crowds, in ride lines, while watching shows, etc.
For free viewing areas, you might try viewing MMM by It's a Small World -- that area can be much less crowded than Main Street since it is a wider area with more room to move around.
If you are fine with being much further back, we have watched the show from Town Square, sitting on the curb in front of the middle of Main Street (the curb of the island in between the Emporium and the Magic Shoppe). It was not crowded and not packed. You won't see the castle as well, but you will have breathing room.